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i can't let go
me and my ex had a big break up which made us stop talking for a while we've dated for almost a year and he wrote to me saying that he still loves me and all so we kept talking and chilling i mean i still love him too but he gets mad at me for the smallest things then we stop talking AGAIN, he tells me he misses me loves me all the typical things a boyfriend would say but if he does why doesn't he ask me back out so it would make better sense of him telling me those things im juss soo confused about things i don't know what to do :/
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Guys have a tendency to act a certain way when they don't physically attain the attention or physical presence of someone in particular. Sometimes we'll act a certain way like when we're comfortable at home and in a good mood, we can be very nice and assuring and sympathetic, all that, and it is all real, but when we attain the attention or intimacy we desired when we were alone, our perception changes. It's like we don't understand our emotions, or we're purposely building emotion without having felt it yet just to gain something. Which means he thinks he means all those things but when he's with you he himself realizes that the things he says are not completely true, and that's why small fights occur, just so he can escape back to his own bubble. And you don't need to waste your time on that cycle. It may not be just guys, all guys, or all girls, but it happens to all of us at some point.
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Um. This guy doesn't seem to know what he really wants. Like one minute he wants to be with you and the next he gets all confused and he takes the anger out on you. If he really does love why don't he just come out and show you in a respectful way. If I were to be int hat situation I would sit him down and tell him to make up his mind and ask why if he would lower his anger. I am sure it frightens you because you don't know weather or not he will go into a fit or something? Um.! But really though..If he keeps sending you mixed signals tell him you need to move on with your life you can't keep wondering if he's going to send you a message saying he wnats to be with you. You can't wait for him forever. I know you still love him but he has to do his share of the work as well..being honest with you.
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