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there is this girl who is telling my bf to break up with me and date her!!!!!!! Grrr... and i wanna message her on myspace but i dont know what to tell her. I need some advice on this so tell me what to tell her , not what you think I sould tell her.Sorry to be mean but im really mad
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How about you get your boyfriend to tell her to basically, piss off.
and if he doesn't? He's blatantly loving the attention and clearly doesn't care about you as much as he probably says.
If I were in your shoes and he didn't do anything about it... cya! I'd find someone worth my time and isn't letting silly little girls hang about as a bit on the side.
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I agree with Flare. This is something your boyfriend needs to deal with. If you write her then you will just come off looking like an insecure girlfriend.
If he cares about you, he won't be listening to anything she says. He does need to make it quite clear to her that he is taken & that she needs to back off.
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How do you know this is happening? Because if you're just guessing, you could look like a real jakass in the end. Has your boyfriend told you? If so, he should be the one to tell the girl leave him alone, because he cares about you, not her, and if anything, what she is doing is making him more and more against her.
If you just heard from a friend or someone, dont do anything untill you have proof, because she will deny it, and then you cant do anything about it. Ask your boyfriend, if he confirms, then do the above^^^.
If he doesnt do anything, then he isnt worth it. He must like the attention, and isnt really right for you.
If he has tried but she wont stop, then this is your que to step in. Just be all "look...what your doing is not entertaining. He doesnt like you, he likes me, so back off" or something along the lines. Dont say anything that you aren't willing to back up. Dont talk about resorting to physical violence unless you are willing to. But even then, make sure you do your research. Is she one of them girls that will get every other single one of her friends to beat you up? can you match that?
Dont use violence, unless its a completely LAST resort. Try to resolve it using words. Your boyfriend should ignore for a start. Is she talking to him through myspace? or in person? txt? etc? Im more of a facebook person, but im assuming you can block someone off myspace if you choose? He can do that cant he? good luck. Hope i helped!
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