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Do guys prefer blow jobs or sex?

Question Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 5:50 pm

Do guys prefer blow jobs or sex?

I know everyone's different, so giving examples from experience, etc. will do. I'm just curious.

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lacexface answered Monday February 22 2010, 8:51 pm:
Well.. that all depends on the guy. Some guys like the intimacy of sex and others just want the other thing. Every guy I've ever asked prefers BJs, but obviously that only applies to teenage boys. I think the older the guy gets, the more he wants a more emotional relationship, not just physical. Sex is a lot more emotional, depending on who it is with and how it is done. BJs aren't really emotional, they're just something guys like having done to them. You're right though, everyone is different so there's really no way to say what guys prefer.

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SecretDreamer95 answered Monday February 22 2010, 5:15 am:
depends on the guy..some rather blowjobs, some rather sex most rather both.

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MissYMelisS answered Monday February 22 2010, 2:54 am:
It depends on each guy.

Sex is good in an "all-around" kind of way, you enjoy it, he enjoys it.

But sometimes a guy wants something a little more personal or they just dont want to do any work themselves (lets face it, with sex most of the time the guy does do most of the work). So if thats the case then giving them Head or a hand job is always a good idea.

Not every guy prefers sex either. Ive met guys before who are orally fixated. Which means they would rather have head then anything else.

It all depends on the guy so make sure that you just ask. It doesnt have to be awkward you can just ask what they want you to do for them.

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THE-RACK answered Monday February 22 2010, 2:20 am:
Definitely Sex! but then again that depends on the girl, what if that girls sucks in bed, but gives a killer blowjob.. i think theyd prefer the bj then.
If sex feels better than the blowjob then why not go for the sex.. sometimes there are just things that make the sex inconvenient or unattractive, like what girl [or guy] is doing it and how.

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