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...Dating...for the first time?
Hey everyone, 22/f.
So, I recently got out of a shitty relationship with a guy (James) I'd been with for over four years. My heart hadn't really been with him for over a year, but we said our final goodbyes only last weekend.
This is gonna sound bad, but I'm already considering dating. Is it too soon? I think I'm past the point where I'm attracted to a guy because he's not James, and can see the guy for who he is, but there's still that fear that that's what I'm doing, y'know?
I don't know if I'm looking for a relationship right now as much as just getting to know some guys and having some fun (not like that...James kinda killed my sex drive).
Anyway. The kicker here is that I've never actually dated before. Like, gone out with guys who weren't my friends first, who I didn't already know well. I guess my question here is something along the lines of "any tips?" or "any feedback for me?"
Thanks!
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Sounds to me like you need to get out and have some fun!
Sure you might have just broken up last week, but if your not looking for a serious relationship, theres no problem in letting a Nice guy take you out to dinner or a movie or something else fun!
You deserve to be treated nicely and have a good time!
Dating guys that you arent initially close to can actually be pretty liberating. They dont know anything about you, and they have no pre-judgements.
So, date some nice guys, have a blast, and when your ready for a "real relationship" you'll know!
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Well your young and able to drink.. hit up the clubs with some friends have a drink or two.
Look good that night,go to a popular spot, and your bound to get hit on.. be outgoing, dont be afraid to give your number out to a guy [not everyguy, but one you get a good vibe from] and see where things go from there. I wouldnt talk to drunk men, chances are they wont remember you or where they put your number.
Basicly put yourself in situations where you will meet new people and dont be afraid to conversate.. nothing sucks more than a person who just cannot talk. lol have fun!
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