My girlfrined (19) and I (19) have been fighting for a long time now. She is the one who has been driving us to where we hangout and stuff she does the hardest part of our relationship I think and recently she has been saying I act like a child. Now I do tend to be all childlike when I am around her but that is because all we ever do is hangout with my bestfriend and his girlfriend so I tend to let go and be carefree which she says I shouldn't do. Now I tend to call her too much and text her and stuff and its because i think she is not doing what she tells me she does but i know I'm wrong. She still talks to a bunch of guys that I don't like her talking to and it upsets me but she says I just need to trust her and give her space we have been dating over a year and its had its ups and downs and all so tell me what you think.
Additional info, added Monday February 22 2010, 4:29 pm: now she is saying that when we move out we should have places of our own instead of just getting an apartment together. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mellophone03 answered Monday February 22 2010, 10:44 pm: You need to keep in mind that all relationships have their ups and downs, and that no relationship is perfect. There will be flaws and bumps along the way that you're going to have to deal with.
Also, nobody is perfect. You should feel free to act freely when you guys hang out, but just keep in mind that your girlfriend appreciates your maturity over your childness.
About her hanging out with guys, relax. A lot of girls are friends with guys. It doesn't have to do anything with a serious relationship. But if she's showing signs of suspicion, such as seeming to lose interest in you or her constantly bringing up those guys, you could casually ask what their friendship is like.
About the moving out thing, that could be a sign that she doesn't feel a strong relationship. You could ask her, calmly and suggestivly, how she feels your relationship is, and take serious note of her opinion. [ mellophone03's advice column | Ask mellophone03 A Question ]
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