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is he dropping hints to me that he still loves me and wants me back?
it has been nearly 2 months now since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me but just few days ago, i meet up with him for a gathering with our other friends (we had mutual friends). I did realised something from that day..
1st: i caught him looking at me for few times
2nd: he still plays with my hair like how he used to play with it when we're still a couple
3rd: i find that he still cares for me (eg: i was sitting at the corner and he voiced out to his friends why did they not asked me to join them when they were playing cards, asked me how am i going home later). but i was cool and not show him that i still have feelings for him, i act not to notice him when he said good night to me when i was leaving and i said good night to others but not him. other than that, when he tried to talk to me.. i acted as though i am busy and not respond to his questions.
besides that, i heard from my friends that he is now playfully going after a girl who is working in the bar whom he just met 1 weeks ago. besides that, he and his friends are visiting the bar every night for that 1 week because they came back for chinese new year holiday and now they are all back to work. is he giving me hints that he still wants to be back together with me? is he trying to make me jeolous by going after the girl to see how is my reaction? will i drive him away and i really don't know whether am i doing the right thing?
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You are way over-thinking this.
If you want him back, you need to speak up. I can pretty much guarantee you he isn't spending this much effort thinking about it. He is just doing what he wants to do, without any thoughts about your feelings on the matter.
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Honestly, There was a reason why you two broke up. and From my personal experience dating someone again after a break up we broke up for the same reason, again! HE may be trying to get your attention but From my experience it probably won't work out again. Maybe just stay friends
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Those hints aren't clear enough to determine if he wants you back.
Just because he is showing signs he cares, doesn't mean he wants to be with you - he's just being a nice person.
For your own sanity, just talk to him and ask him yourself - you will feel so much better knowing you have a straight answer. Don't ask your friends to ask him, pluck up the courage and do it yourself, otherwise, you'll never know the truth and could get hurt in the end.
As for this other girl, I reckon if he was trying to make you jealous, he would have told YOU personally about her and not have your other mates tell you..? That's also something we can't tell you - you'll just have to wait and see with that one I'm afraid.
Sorry this answer probably isn't what you want to hear - I know when there's someone you like/love involved, it's always going to be hard.
Just be brave and ask him if he still has feelings for you/would get back with you.
If the answer's no, get on with your life and find someone who wants and deserves to be with you. :)
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