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Boyfriend wants to smoke
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 6:29 pm
So, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. We're really good with one another, and he's unlike any guy I've ever met. We have a lot of differences, which is alright by me because I couldn't live without the guy. When we started dating, he was really into getting high. He does use it responsibly, but he wants to do it for the rest of his life. He claims it inspires him to write music, play guitar, and to be spiritual. I respect this. After a month of dating, I told him that him smoking bothers me (No, he didn't do it around me, I just don't support any kinds of drugs). He quit for awhile, but now it's awkward. Every time it gets brought up we get into an arguement. I'm just not sure what to do. His friends stopped talking to...
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Does He Like Me Or Not?
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 5:57 pm
This guy that I've been talking to recently started texting me more and more. He asked me to go to the club last night to see him perform. He seemed like he really wanted me to go, so I went. He was pretty wasted, but he went around, grabbing my hand/holding me, introducing me to all his friends. I ended up sleeping over his house (ONLY CAUSE I WAS TOO DRUNK TO DRIVE)! and he tried to make some moves but I denied them because I don't believe in getting "intimate" too fast. The next morning, I left his house, and he texted me immediately! He asked me to hang out again today. I'm horrible at reading guys so I don't know if he really likes me or if he's just trying to get into my pants. Help! Thanks guys!
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Boyfriend LYING
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 5:10 pm
Okay,
My boyfriend has been looking at p*rn a lot lately and it really bothers me. It bothers me because that is what he seems to prefer rather than us having sex together. He doesn't tell me he is looking at it, He hides it. Whenever I question or ask about it he lies...and it is really starting to tick me off.
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break up or make up
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 4:08 pm
so my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 9 months.. in a couple days.. [technically 10] and i have been through so much for him.. for oever a year if you put it all together. people bullied me, i was harassed, my friends turned against me and now i have more enemies than i can count on both of my hands.. all becausehe broke up with his ex for me and i became a "home-wrecker" but she was cheating on him the entire time they were together and all this crap.
well, in the beginning, he was so used to just flirting with girls and having it be okay and normal in a relationship.. he used to call this girl baby and love and beautiful and i found out and i almost broke up with him. he didnt talk to me for 3 months over t...
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No, This guy is literally crazy and threatening to kill himself.
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 12:11 pm
THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.
He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.
But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he...
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i really want to have sex with this guy but i don't know how
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:52 am
Im a female, and I'm 15 years old. Ok so there's this guy I've known since like 2nd grade and we've always been like best friends (He's about a year younger than me)- I've had a crush on him for as long as I can remember, but I never said anything. Well last year around Christmas, I told him how I felt (that I liked him etc.) He said that he liked me back. Then we started making out. Then on Christmas night I spent the night at his house and it was about 1:00am and we were watching tv and we were talking about doing "stuff". Then he fingered me. The next morning it wasn't awkward or anything it was just like things were before. We had previously dry humped.(practically had sex with our clothes on- but it seems like he may have jus...
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woman's orgasm
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:46 am
How can a man tell if a woman is experiencing an orgasm during sex? I've been told that women can fake an orgasm, so I was just wondering if there is a way to tell if she is or not.
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help getting over him
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:45 am
ok. well there is this one *boy*. i really like him. i know he doesnt like me near as much as i do to him. we had a fling but it soon ended. but since then i CANNOT get over him. no matter what i do. everytime i think im over him, i somehow find a way to fall madly in love with him again. all it takes is me hearing his name or seeing him. but liking him consumes so much of me, and its beginning to become draining. he actually at times is mean to me, but i brush it off and like him still. but sometimes he acts like hes into me again, and im on cloud nine. but then were back to normal, which is him not giving me the time of day. i know that i need to get over him, but i need extreme help and tips on how to do this. not normal "get over h...
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cheating
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:34 am
i love my husband very much and we have no problem other than he watches porn and looks at other women i tell him that it called cheating.but he always denies it but i see it in the history of my computer on on the tv how can i stop him .what should i do.if he keeps lieing
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this guy im in love with
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:31 am
oka.. theres this boy i am like basically in love with well only problem is is that hes with another girl yet wants ta be wit me but jus donno how to let er go cuz hes been with her for so long how do i sho him im the one he should be wit
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I am in a really complicated relationship
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:24 am
Okay... This guy asked me out yesterday... But he is a Coulerd and i am white. I really like him alot but he broke my heart a few months ago. He aked me out and then told me 3 days later he has a gf. There have been other Boys but none of them took his place and as soon as they said they loved me i backed out. I am 14 and he is 16 and i know my parents wont be okay with it if they found out(the skincolour). No one knows about it yet but soon they will start finding out. I dont know what to do now. Last time the whole school was gossiping about me and i sort of got a bad name. My best friend is black and worried i get hurt again. We always have to be on the lookout but he doesnt care who knows or finds out and i do but im to scared to tell h...
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hickey
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:20 am
Do you know how to get rid of hickeys? I have a really big one on my neck, and I'm not sure what to do!? please hurry!
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should I tell him?
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 1:00 am
17/F. So i just recently started dating My current boyfriend, its been almost a month now. But the problem is my ex is still "in love" with me. I havent told my ex about my current boyfriend because I think it would hurt him too much. Would it be better if i just told the ex, and not spare breaking his heart.. again. Or would it be better if I just waited til my ex has moved on and got over me before telling him? As of right now, me and my current boyfriend are pretty low key, and only people who see us together or kiss know.. so its not likely that my ex will find out from someone else, and i want to be the one to tel lhim.. im just scared of he will react.. because i know itll hurt him deeply. Any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated! :)
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akward to date an instructor?
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 12:41 am
would it be weird if i dated one of my taekwondo instructors? he is 18 im 16, were both interested in eachother he even called me beautiful last class
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Matters of the mind, heart, and gut
Posted Friday February 26 2010, 11:12 pm
I am going to give a little background first then I will ask my questions.
I am 21 and a female.
As I was growing up I noticed that I had several dreams actually come true. Also as a child I would ask God to show me who my future husband would be. After a few months of asking God for some hint as to who he would be, I started to dream about this person with a blurry face except for the eyes. As I got older the guy's face became clearer and clearer.
I am now in a relationship with a guy that has everything I could ever want, but he is not the face I see in my dreams. My gut is telling me to keep searching for this other guy, but my mind knows I found the perfect guy for me. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend but ...
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Found a great guy, but I'm concerned my ex will interfere.
Posted Friday February 26 2010, 5:02 pm
22/f here. My ex, Nathan, is 24, and my current, Kyle, is 28. This is gonna be a bit long...
I was with Nathan for about 4 years on and off. He was emotionally abusive, but I was addicted to him. Being in the mental health field, I know a lot about addiction and how to overcome it. I broke up with him. We ended things on good terms, but I asked him to let me initiate contact at some point in the future. He has broken this agreement many times already with e-mails telling me how much he loves and misses me.
Now, Kyle and I dated during an off-period with Nathan, but I ended it because I wasn't ready to walk away from Nathan, and I recognized that. I am now, though, and I did...right back into Kyle's arms. Kyle i...
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boyfriend of one year broke up
Posted Friday February 26 2010, 3:26 pm
16/f
two days ago i broke up with my boyfriend but we can continue being friends since i'm doing bad in school, so i wanted to focus during school. for my own personal reasons. and later on he decided he didn't want to get back together because he wants his freedom for a while to hang out with his friends and that he'll always love me and there's not going to be a next girlfriend. whether i believe him or not, i do somewhat believe him... because he said his dad only loved his mom for the longest time, and even though his mom is now married to someone else. his dad never stopped loving her. i cried because it was official, and so did he. but i don't feel that sad anymore, maybe because my schedule is different.. i miss seeing...
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Boyfriend thinks i dont need make up..?
Posted Friday February 26 2010, 3:19 pm
hi 14f bf 16 xD
well yesterday i was talking to my bf I said I was going to change my hair. I told him I was going to make my hair wavy and where some makeup. He said "Me no like ;/ " and i asked him what did he meant and he said " I love your hair the way it is and You don't need make up." He said i don't like the girls with the make up that makes them look like clowns, i dont like the bright lipstick, a little eyeliner is fine but you don't need it. soo i like wearing makeup but what makeup should i do that he would approve of? I don't wear it often. Thanks!
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my best friend likes a guy who likes me, and isn't interested in her...
Posted Friday February 26 2010, 2:45 pm
15/f
my best friend "maggie" likes this guy, "jason". maggie is an amazing girl, but she is awful with guys. she changes her mind constantly. one day, she'll love a guy, she'll get him to go for her, then she'll decide she doesn't feel the same way about them. that's what she's been like for as long as i know her, and she has a whole lot of guys who hate her. this guy jason is really hot, and i talked to him a little bit in the beginning of the school year, and we have a class together. we're friends. so maggie decides she likes him, just when jason and i start to really talk and be good friends. this was about 2 weeks ago. it kind of made me mad, bc it was completely out of the blue. but whatever. i was talking t...
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How to breakup with someone who loves you
Posted Friday February 26 2010, 6:25 am
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and he really, really loves me a lot. We lost our virginities together, we went to his prom last year together, and I was with him when his mom and dad divorced. I understand that he loves me a whole lot. The problem is that I don't love him and I haven't for awhile now.
I use to love him just like he loved me. As time passes I notice I don't have much feelings toward him. It's not that I wouldn't care if he died or something but I don't have any emotional pull toward him. I don't have that bond like we use to share. I don't feel butterflies when I see him or when we kiss. To be honest, I don't even want to talk to him or see him so often. I would be happy and satisfied if ...
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