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help getting over him
ok. well there is this one *boy*. i really like him. i know he doesnt like me near as much as i do to him. we had a fling but it soon ended. but since then i CANNOT get over him. no matter what i do. everytime i think im over him, i somehow find a way to fall madly in love with him again. all it takes is me hearing his name or seeing him. but liking him consumes so much of me, and its beginning to become draining. he actually at times is mean to me, but i brush it off and like him still. but sometimes he acts like hes into me again, and im on cloud nine. but then were back to normal, which is him not giving me the time of day. i know that i need to get over him, but i need extreme help and tips on how to do this. not normal "get over him" but something that will rid of the boy that consumes so much of my life.
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Simply avoid him at all costs, delete his phone number, and try to find another sweet guy. After all of that, if you still can't get your mind off of him then that must mean you really are into him. So if this continues, maybe pull him aside and talk to him about it. Or if you don't want to try that, which I wouldn't recommend, then try watching comedies or revenge movies with your friends, maybe with some ice cream, but only if you feel totally heartbroken. I honestly wouldn't want you to reach to that though so if you're serious about forgetting about him then do our first steps we gave out.
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If your really serious about getting over him, you should really think about deleting his number, so you can't even have the oppertunity to talk to him, you should also take him off of you myspace/facebook ie. whatever else you have, just so you dont get constant reminders about him, it helped me when i did :) if you think you could, you might want to start talking to another boy, you know, even if you don't like him its a good way to move on. :)
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a) Act like you dont like him. Its really simple, guys will always love the chase. If you dont give him the time of day, flirt with other guys etc, and every once in a while send him a little message that "yeah im still intrested, but i could totally find someone else".
It will drive him crazy i promise.
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b) If you really want to get over him then you need to find someone else. This guy sounds like a jerk, so just forget about him? I know it sounds hard because you think that your in love, but i promise one day your going to find someone who will make you feel like a million dollars. Who wont want to be mean to you because he likes you so much.
Hold out for someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated
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