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they dont trust me!!!
well. my parents simply dont trust me. i hardly do anything that would make them not trust me. but they cant seem to let me do anything i want. and if they do, it takes some serious interigating in order for me to do it. ive proven myself trustworthy, what should i do to make them actually benifit from that trust???
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I went through the same thing... first you need to realize how tough it is for them to let go. It's not that they don't trust you, it's that they're afraid of the things they don't know about where you are or who you're with. Introduce any new friends to your parents and ask to have friends over for things like movie-nights in. If your parents are comfortable with what they see in their home they may be more willing to let you go out with them. You also need to calmly tell them how feel and tell them what you think you should be allowed to do and ask if they can compremise anything.
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Trust takes time to build, ESPECIALLY with parents.
They do it because they care about you. They don't want you to get hurt and do things you shouldn't be doing.
As you get older, you'll notice them getting more lax.
For now, to show you are a maturing young adult, don't moan about it! Accept their rules and they will soon see you are willing to listen and do what it takes.
As I've said.. it won't always be like this. Just carry on being trustworthy. :)
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