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Okkayyy, youu answeredd my questionn, but what if he tells me that he feels the same wayy andd he wants to date me againn? I REALLY wanna be withh him againn. What wouldd I do. I'm WEAK! (link)
well, i think you know how you feel. If you think you can be in a relationship with him, take the chance but make sure you know what your getting into. Tell him what you don't want, and what you don't want. Tell him what you expect and see how he reacts, if its bad, STAY AWAY, if its not, good, go for it :)


Okay So Me And This Guyy Have Hadd Sexx A Couple Times And We NEVER Use A Condom. But Theres No Need Forr A Condom If He NEVER Cums, Righhtt?

I Askked Him Why He Neverr Cums And He Saidd "I Cann Handle Mines" ;
Is That Evenn Possible? Cann Youu Reallyy Stopp Yourselff From Cumingg?

His Friendd Toldd Me It's Because He Doesn't Have Balls. But I Thinkk He's Just Sayingg That To Mess Aroundd. But At The Same Time I Kindaa Believe It. But I'm Not Sure If It's Possible For A Guyy Not To Have Balls.
Andd I Know I Shouldd Knoww If I Hadd Sexx Withh Him Like More Thenn 10 Times But I've Neverr Actaullyy Payedd Attentionn. (link)
i think you might notice if he was missing something.. but are you absolutely sure he doesn't cum? Like POSITIVE? what if he does and doesn't want to tell you? i'm just thinking, and does he go to the bathroom after or before? maybe he's embarrassed so he does it before or after. :)


Ughhh, I Want My Exx Boyfriendd Backk!

I Just Want To Be Withh Him Againn!
The Onlyy Problem Is HE Broke Up Withh Me Because He Didn't Feel Comfortable, Andd He Says He Reallyy Cares For Me Andd Loves Me But I'm Havingg Trouble Believingg That, Because If He Didd Thenn We'd Be Togetherr Rightt?

Last Weekendd We Hadd Sexx A Lottt. Thenn Whenn Like Mondayy Or Tuesdayy I Go To My Friendds House Andd Her Andd Herr Boyfriendd Toldd Me Angel Was Here Yesterdayy, And I Was Like Okkayyyy, Andd Adriana Was Like I Wouldd Tell Youu Somethingg But I Don't Wantt Youu To Cryy, I Was Like Just Tell Me! So Herr Boyfriendd Enrique Toldd Me, He Saidd Angel Fuckkedd Gabi Yesterdayy. Andd I Just Startedd Cryinggg! I Don't Want Him Messingg Withh Otherr Girls! He Has A Girlfriendd But Theyy Don't Evenn Talkk! It's Like I'm Jealous Whenn He Messes Withh Otherr Girls. I Want Him To Myselff, Andd That's Howw He Is Withh Me I Guess. His Friendd Enrique Andd My Friendd Adriana Toldd Me What Theyy Thinkk. Theyy Usedd Forr A Example Adriana's Mom And Her Exx Boyfriendd Mario. Mario Wantts Herr Mom To Himselff, He's In Love Withh Herr But He's Still Youngg Andd Wants To Mess Aroundd, So He's Basiclyy Like Savingg Herr. Andd I Saidd Well Wtf Angel Has Girlfriendss Alll The Time Andd They Saidd Yeahh Andd He Cheats On Themm Rightt, Andd I Was Like Yeahh Then Enrique Was Like Exactlyy He Doesn't Want To Be withh Youu Right Now Because He Doesn't Want To Hurt Youu! But He Loves Youu!
But Ughhh I Can't Take It Anymoree. I Don't Wanna Just Keep Beingg Fuckk Buddys! I Just Want Him To Myselff! If He Loves Me Thenn He'll Be Withh Me! What Do I Do !!!! (link)
you might not think so, but i think it'd be good to cut him off. Just stop with the constant sex, make him want you. Theres alot more than that too with std's and everything but thats not what you care about. Tell him how you really feel. Tell him how he makes you feel, and see what he says. Before you do this you might want to say you don't want to sleep with him unless your dating because guys will say ALOT just to get in your pants, take it from me. And hes cheating on his girlfriends, what does that mean for you? what if hes done that to you and you didn't find out? keep this in mind, and get your feelings out there. :)


Where can I find a bag like this?
Or can anyone tell me the maker?

http://l.yimg.com/k/im_siggM72t6ROrJW8scbikBTh82g---y626-x495-q75-n1/omg/us/img/64/79/1798489281_3288221329.jpg (link)
You should really try forever 21, they have tons of bags like that. or if your okay with shopping online, alloy.com, or deliahs.com. If you like a tad more expensive try vans store, they have black cute ones, hope i helped.


Okayy, I'm 13 and I'm a girl. So me and this guy have a bad past together. It started in 6th grade. We started dating til 7th grade, then in 7th grade he cheated on me twice! Thenn we eventually broke up. We didn't talk or evenn look at eachotherr for about 10 monthhs. We started dating other people. Then randomly out of no where over the summer we started talking again. We started dating againn. He toldd me he always loved me and he never stopped caring and a lot more, But thenn I found out he cheated on me AGAIN! So we ended up breaking up again. Him and my friend are like really close and she was there when he broke up with me. [over a txt message] And she said he was crying because he didn't really want to do it because he loved me still but he didn't feel comfortable. So HE broke up with me. He started dating other girls and we still kept messing around. I mess with him because I LOVE him. I have no clue why he messes withh me. He eventually moved for 2 months and I was starting to forget him. Then randomly 2 weeks ago I get a phone call and it's from him. He called me and asked if I wanted to hangg out so I went. He's dating one of my friends but we ended up having Sex anyways. Thenn last weekendd him and his friend [My friends boyfriend] came to pick me up at my house. My friends boyfriend was like ATR [Her Initials] wants youu. So he was like get your stuff we'll take you. So I went, we were all hanging out and everything but my friend and her boyfriend starting fighting and she broke up with him and they were both crying. then we were talking and she said "No offense but I don't want to be like you and ZAF" what she meant was still mess around even though he still has girlfriend and I still have boyfriends and all that. I couldn't take that though, I started crying and I said to myself I feel stupidd. I kindaa think he doesn't even care about me or love me the way he says he does! Then he came in the room and layed down with me. then we went in the living room because ATF wanted to sleep with her EX boyfriend. So we slept in the living room. We had sex again. ATR kept telling me to talk to him and tell him exactly how I feel but I'm not sure how to tell him. I'm afraid to tell him because what if he doesn't care like I care. I just want to be with him. What do I do? Everybody says once a cheater always a cheater. But I honestly don't believe that. people change. And I know he messed up a lott but I can't help who I love! I just want him back! how do I get him back? Or is it even worth it? Helpp please! (link)
i don't think it's worth it, been there done that. But you really should tell him how you feel. He can take it anyway he wants, and that's not your problem! If he doesn't love you, or care about him...oh well! at least he now knows how you feel. and cut him off! this isn't fair to you at all. Your really just hurting yourself, and that is no fair at all, tell him, and then try to get over it. But you should get your feelings out there, it feels better to actually talk about it. Good luck :)


I'm 18. I'm in high school. A high school for the GIFTED, actually, and yet half the kids in my school don't know the difference between "their" and "they're", "your"/"you're", "to"/"too", etc. And, well, neither does the rest of teenage America.

What the fuck? What HAPPENED. What the hell is wrong with this country that we can't learn grammatical laws that have been introduced to is in, what, second grade? Has having cell phones permanently put kids in "typin like dis lol" mode? (link)
I don't think you can blame it on one perticular thing, but i get what you mean. haha, it's pretty sad, this is true. But i think, from knowing people, that it's just their laziness that keeps them from wanting to be smart, or learning things, they probably do know, they just don't care. Or they don't care enough.


Im 15/f. (:
Im with a guy i like for a long time. He is NOT a virgin, i however, am. I just had some question's. 1st- how bad is it going to hurt? I have been fingered, does that change anything?
2nd--is there anything i can do during sex that'll pleasure him too? Any tips to make me seem better? am i going to bleed bad?
Thanks in advancee (link)
I gotchhaaa (: one thing that pleased my boyfriend at the time was breathing hard, scratching, holding on tight and pulling him closer, and thrusting hard, but don't worry about that, it will come naturally. Trust me :) How bad will it hurt? everyone is different. What you need to remember, is to not tighten your legs, if he is on top {missionary) don't squeeze your legs and block him out! relax a little, it will take time though, try not to be nervous, and, if he lets you, this always helps me,..bite. :) it might hurt him, but it helps you release your tension and it makes it alot easier to distract yourself. :) use a distraction! i learned that the first time and it really helped. You should try makingout with him and ignore what else is going on, because then it will feel good. And i also heard if you masterbate before it will be easier, but i haven't tried :)


Hey everyone, im 15/f.
And i have suffered from Anorexia Nervosa. I just got out of the hospital. Im doing much bettter. But do you have any tips on how i can eat less? Becuase i sit here and tell myself i wont eat alot then i do. I just need to eat less. Im 5"7 and im thin. but i weigh 155. i want to be 120. what do i do??? Thanks in advance (link)
if you want to eat less, try walking away and keeping yourself busy. Like maybe while your eating, and you finish a plate of food and you think you want more, get online, or talk on the phone and distract yourself from eating, it's not that hard. If you want to loose some weight and stay in good health, i'm on a 1100 calorie diet. (i just turned 16) I just started so i'm not to good at it, but i try to write what i eat down and count the calories, besides that you need to spend twenty minutes exercising two days a week, my mom just went from 140 to 120 doing it. Good luck :)


Im moving halfway through school (next week) and I've been living here since I was 6 (Im 16) and I want to show people I love them by baking cookays! Or other little simple snacks like that. Not cupcakes though, I have no idea how to make those, lmao. Maybe brownies though? anything like that.

Lots of them, too.. like somewhere around 200. Naturally I wanna make some bada** cookies so they'll remember me in a good light (I dont want them to remember me as the girl who gave them like food poisoning or something lmao) so give me websites with awesome recipes!!!

THANX! Any other tips for a girl whose moving next week? Im feeling homesick yet excited, yet nervous, yet anxious all at the same time!! I feel like typing this " 3483ODIHy fb,I* RY3oi?" so I did. >____ (link)
you can go to the store and get the little cheap precut cookies that are already perfectly made, just stick them in the oven, i honestly make cupcakes once a month because i think there really good and so easy to make, all you do is get cake mix, and poor it into the little cups. One box usually makes around twenty five, and cake mix is around two or three dollars.


ok. well there is this one *boy*. i really like him. i know he doesnt like me near as much as i do to him. we had a fling but it soon ended. but since then i CANNOT get over him. no matter what i do. everytime i think im over him, i somehow find a way to fall madly in love with him again. all it takes is me hearing his name or seeing him. but liking him consumes so much of me, and its beginning to become draining. he actually at times is mean to me, but i brush it off and like him still. but sometimes he acts like hes into me again, and im on cloud nine. but then were back to normal, which is him not giving me the time of day. i know that i need to get over him, but i need extreme help and tips on how to do this. not normal "get over him" but something that will rid of the boy that consumes so much of my life. (link)
If your really serious about getting over him, you should really think about deleting his number, so you can't even have the oppertunity to talk to him, you should also take him off of you myspace/facebook ie. whatever else you have, just so you dont get constant reminders about him, it helped me when i did :) if you think you could, you might want to start talking to another boy, you know, even if you don't like him its a good way to move on. :)


THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.

He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.

But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.

He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.

This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.

The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.

And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon

He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.

Please help, I'm so scared right now. (link)
first of all, tell your parents for sure. You might get some good advice, and help from them since they're there with you.. i think i'd be very smart to tell your councilor, i know it's nerve racking but i've had to tell my councilor many things that were going on with me just so i could put them to rest, and sometimes you can even get paid for tipping them about a suicide, its called kidchat. and if i were you, i'd try different routes, where you havent seen him before. Tell your favorite teacher, maybe he/she can help tell the councilor. as for the texting, make sure you tell your parents.. they might think it was a smart thing to change your number, good luck.




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