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I Love Him. Is That Wrongg?
Okayy, I'm 13 and I'm a girl. So me and this guy have a bad past together. It started in 6th grade. We started dating til 7th grade, then in 7th grade he cheated on me twice! Thenn we eventually broke up. We didn't talk or evenn look at eachotherr for about 10 monthhs. We started dating other people. Then randomly out of no where over the summer we started talking again. We started dating againn. He toldd me he always loved me and he never stopped caring and a lot more, But thenn I found out he cheated on me AGAIN! So we ended up breaking up again. Him and my friend are like really close and she was there when he broke up with me. [over a txt message] And she said he was crying because he didn't really want to do it because he loved me still but he didn't feel comfortable. So HE broke up with me. He started dating other girls and we still kept messing around. I mess with him because I LOVE him. I have no clue why he messes withh me. He eventually moved for 2 months and I was starting to forget him. Then randomly 2 weeks ago I get a phone call and it's from him. He called me and asked if I wanted to hangg out so I went. He's dating one of my friends but we ended up having Sex anyways. Thenn last weekendd him and his friend [My friends boyfriend] came to pick me up at my house. My friends boyfriend was like ATR [Her Initials] wants youu. So he was like get your stuff we'll take you. So I went, we were all hanging out and everything but my friend and her boyfriend starting fighting and she broke up with him and they were both crying. then we were talking and she said "No offense but I don't want to be like you and ZAF" what she meant was still mess around even though he still has girlfriend and I still have boyfriends and all that. I couldn't take that though, I started crying and I said to myself I feel stupidd. I kindaa think he doesn't even care about me or love me the way he says he does! Then he came in the room and layed down with me. then we went in the living room because ATF wanted to sleep with her EX boyfriend. So we slept in the living room. We had sex again. ATR kept telling me to talk to him and tell him exactly how I feel but I'm not sure how to tell him. I'm afraid to tell him because what if he doesn't care like I care. I just want to be with him. What do I do? Everybody says once a cheater always a cheater. But I honestly don't believe that. people change. And I know he messed up a lott but I can't help who I love! I just want him back! how do I get him back? Or is it even worth it? Helpp please!
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You're thirteen, you need to act like a thirteen year old, you shouldn't be having sex, cheating, or any of this drama, honestly if I were you I'd just dump him, because it IS true, once a cheater always a cheater. Just forget him and find a guy who doesn't cheat who is nice and can respect you. Show him you've moved on and he'll do the same. That's what I say, sorry if I sound mean.
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i don't think it's worth it, been there done that. But you really should tell him how you feel. He can take it anyway he wants, and that's not your problem! If he doesn't love you, or care about him...oh well! at least he now knows how you feel. and cut him off! this isn't fair to you at all. Your really just hurting yourself, and that is no fair at all, tell him, and then try to get over it. But you should get your feelings out there, it feels better to actually talk about it. Good luck :)
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