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I Want Him Backk!


Question Posted Monday March 1 2010, 1:35 am

Ughhh, I Want My Exx Boyfriendd Backk!

I Just Want To Be Withh Him Againn!
The Onlyy Problem Is HE Broke Up Withh Me Because He Didn't Feel Comfortable, Andd He Says He Reallyy Cares For Me Andd Loves Me But I'm Havingg Trouble Believingg That, Because If He Didd Thenn We'd Be Togetherr Rightt?

Last Weekendd We Hadd Sexx A Lottt. Thenn Whenn Like Mondayy Or Tuesdayy I Go To My Friendds House Andd Her Andd Herr Boyfriendd Toldd Me Angel Was Here Yesterdayy, And I Was Like Okkayyyy, Andd Adriana Was Like I Wouldd Tell Youu Somethingg But I Don't Wantt Youu To Cryy, I Was Like Just Tell Me! So Herr Boyfriendd Enrique Toldd Me, He Saidd Angel Fuckkedd Gabi Yesterdayy. Andd I Just Startedd Cryinggg! I Don't Want Him Messingg Withh Otherr Girls! He Has A Girlfriendd But Theyy Don't Evenn Talkk! It's Like I'm Jealous Whenn He Messes Withh Otherr Girls. I Want Him To Myselff, Andd That's Howw He Is Withh Me I Guess. His Friendd Enrique Andd My Friendd Adriana Toldd Me What Theyy Thinkk. Theyy Usedd Forr A Example Adriana's Mom And Her Exx Boyfriendd Mario. Mario Wantts Herr Mom To Himselff, He's In Love Withh Herr But He's Still Youngg Andd Wants To Mess Aroundd, So He's Basiclyy Like Savingg Herr. Andd I Saidd Well Wtf Angel Has Girlfriendss Alll The Time Andd They Saidd Yeahh Andd He Cheats On Themm Rightt, Andd I Was Like Yeahh Then Enrique Was Like Exactlyy He Doesn't Want To Be withh Youu Right Now Because He Doesn't Want To Hurt Youu! But He Loves Youu!
But Ughhh I Can't Take It Anymoree. I Don't Wanna Just Keep Beingg Fuckk Buddys! I Just Want Him To Myselff! If He Loves Me Thenn He'll Be Withh Me! What Do I Do !!!!


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aim91 answered Monday March 1 2010, 8:30 pm:
i know that your not going to care what i say because you are in love with him but if he really was in love with you why would he want someone else? really be smart and think about it be strong if you really want him the best thing is too just pretend like if it doesnt bother you , it will drive him insane you get me in the mean while , while waiting for this dude talk to someone else just in case he really doesnt want to do anything with you . finding someone else would be great the pain wont go away fast but it helps in these situations.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Monday March 1 2010, 8:16 pm:
He obviously doesnt understand what a relationship is. its good he didnt cheat on you that he broke up with you so he can sleep around but still wants to have sex with you. He only has sex with you now so that he knows you will stay around. I could bet you any amount of money talk with another guy or get your two friends to tell your ex boyfriend you were at the house with another guy you meet and you two had sex or were all over each other hed want you back because hed think you werent going to stick around and you shouldn't find away to get over him hang out with your friends with out him. talk to some other guys etc

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SarcasticGreetings answered Monday March 1 2010, 7:58 pm:
Oh my god. First of all, PLEASE don't type like that. I cannot imagine why you would go the extra mile to make your sentences LESS legible.

But anyway,what the hell? Either your "dream" guy is a complete idiot or far too young to understand what a real relationship is [i'm guessing it's the latter].

Obviously he just wants to get as many chicks as possible, and he's just telling you he cares about you so you'll stick around. I mean, think about it. It bothers you that he's with other girls. If you were in his shoes, if someone you cared about didn't want you sleeping around, would you still do it, even if it meant hurting them? No. AND he broke up with you to sleep around. Nobody in their right mind would do that if they TRULY cared for their boyfriend/girlfriend.

A relationship is a compromise. You have to give up some of your wants and rights so both of you will be happy. And seeing other people is usually one of them.

Don't buy this bullshit. He's a stupid horny teenager. Forget about him. He's not worth your time if he doesn't even take your feelings into consideration.

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laurenknowsbest answered Monday March 1 2010, 5:22 pm:
you might not think so, but i think it'd be good to cut him off. Just stop with the constant sex, make him want you. Theres alot more than that too with std's and everything but thats not what you care about. Tell him how you really feel. Tell him how he makes you feel, and see what he says. Before you do this you might want to say you don't want to sleep with him unless your dating because guys will say ALOT just to get in your pants, take it from me. And hes cheating on his girlfriends, what does that mean for you? what if hes done that to you and you didn't find out? keep this in mind, and get your feelings out there. :)

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