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i really want to have sex with this guy but i don't know how
Im a female, and I'm 15 years old. Ok so there's this guy I've known since like 2nd grade and we've always been like best friends (He's about a year younger than me)- I've had a crush on him for as long as I can remember, but I never said anything. Well last year around Christmas, I told him how I felt (that I liked him etc.) He said that he liked me back. Then we started making out. Then on Christmas night I spent the night at his house and it was about 1:00am and we were watching tv and we were talking about doing "stuff". Then he fingered me. The next morning it wasn't awkward or anything it was just like things were before. We had previously dry humped.(practically had sex with our clothes on- but it seems like he may have just been messing around.) he's so hard to read. I don't think he knows it but I want to "be with him" (have sex) SO BAD!!! I don't know how he feels, so i don't know what to do, and i don't just want to come out and say hey i want to have sex with you, but i really want to. It seems like everytime I'm around him I just want to jump on top of him, and when we're not together, he's all I think about. I think I'm in love with him. What do you think I should do, and how do I tell him the things I want to do with him without sounding stupid. Please help me.
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Well, for one thing. You have to be careful about sex, because it's a huge step forward in your life, with thousands of consiquences.
But, if you think that you're ready, then maybe you should just do things leading up to it.
And if he's not getting the signals then you should sit down and talk to him about it.
Tell him that you have really strong feelings for him and you don't know if he feels the same, but you're ready for anything. And that you're in love with him.
And if he thinks that you sound stupid, then let him. Because atleast he knows how you feel.
But I wouldn't move too quick, because you also don't want to lose him while in the process of getting to that point.
Hope I helped. (:
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Well for one, you are very very young and I know you don't want to hear it, but sex is a HUGE responsibility for the both of you. You need to go get on birth control if you are serious about becoming sexually active and still use condoms as neither are 100%. The only thing that is 100% is abstinence. Also if you don't know how this guy feels about you, then definatly don't sleep with him. You're first time should be with someone that you truly care about & that truly cares about you, not just because you think they are hot or want them to like you.
Sit down with him and let him know that you are attracted to him, but don't just throw yourself at him. You dont want to make yourself look easy, nor should you be easy. Wait until you guys have been going out for a while and then you can TALK about having sex. It isnt to be taken lightly, there are lots of responsiblities that go along with having sex and you shouldnt just have sex with anyone. It needs to be special, just be careful, talk about it with him, use protection, and be SURE that you are ready for a huge commitement.
Hope I Helped :)
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