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what is anal sex? everybody always talks about it and i have no idea...
and my second one is, im not really sure what all this means but how does a condom protect from the cum because ive heard that the cum comes out of the penis so how do the condom protect from it? lol. im not planning on having sex at alll.. im waiting till i atleast find the right person. but i atleast want to know what this means. lol. i rate 5 for all(: (link)
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Anal sex is when the guy puts the penis in your butthole.
And a condom protects the cum from going into the vagina because it covers the penis so that it prevents that from happening, if that makes sense?
Hahaha, hope I helped. (:
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okay, so my back has been driving me crazy the last few days, its not hurting, its just uncomfortable. ive tried sleeping and sitting different ways but nothing helps. it has happened before, maybe a year ago and it got to the point that i started crying because i couldnt get away from the feeling. so i got a new bed hoping that it would help and it did. the bed i have now is only one year old. i was also wondering if it could be from my electric blanket. AND are these sorts of back problems caused from stress because ive been really stressed lately. also its not from age because i am only 16 haha thanks. im not sure if this comes under fitness so sorry if it doesnt :) (link)
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Well, maybe it is caused my stress. You can be tensing your back.
So maybe you should go see a chiropractor, and get a back massage.
That might help a great deal.
Hope I helped.
-M
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sooo, i had sex with the boyfriend i had a while back, i know it wasn't the smartest thing and i actually did fall deep in love with him and then it ended... i don't remember much about loosing my virginity, but i do remember that we actually had to try a few times for me to actually let him go all the way in. Well now, i'm with my current boyfriend who i've known my entire life, and we care soo much for eachother. he hasn't had sex and i have with one other person, i'm not sure what it is but it's hard for me to do it with him. We tried it one night and we were both ready, and i couldn't ler myself untense my legs, and i think it had to do with being nervous about someone walking in, but i did let him in a little, and it hurt, just like i remembered, and he couldn't stand hurting me so he stoped, now i regret him stoping and we both want to do it again, i'm just not sure if i'm good at it, or if he is, or if im more scared because i know its his first time.
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Well, there's a first time for everything. If you don't remember something, it probably wasn't good enough to remember. (;
But anyways, maybe you should do it somewhere that you know someone won't walk in.
Like, a weekend your parents won't be home, or something like that.
And it's going to hurt. Because you haven't had sex in awhile, so yeah..
And if you or him aren't good at it, how would you know!? You've only had sex with one other person, and you hardly remember it.
Just be happy that you're both with eachother and doing it. (:
There's nothing wrong with being bad if you both are with eachother.
I hope I helped.
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okay so i have been friends with this girl forever. and we know everthing about eachother. we hangout all the time too. soo anyways at a football game me and my friend table topped her and she kinda got mad so i said im sorry and shes just like thats fine. so know when i was talking to her on myspace shes like DONT TALK TO ME, I DONT WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH YOU ANYMORE! i tried everything to get her back but nothing works. i cant belive we just ended a friendship over something stupid. and the part i hate the most is its all my fault. what should i do about this? (link)
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This has happened quite a lot with my and one of my guy friends.
What I suggest you do, is telling her how much your friendship means to you, explain to her how sorry you are about doing that to her, and let you know that you'll always love her no matter what.
I hope I helped. (:
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Hi im 13 years old and im a girl.It's been 4 months that i dont feel any emotions.I only feel anger and sadness.I cry a lot because i have no idea what to do and im seriously thinking about starting to cut myself and im afraid.I dont wanna die at all i wanna live myself.I always play a part when im with my friends.I noticed that a lot of people try drugs becaus the same way that i feel.
I really need advices from people that probably already being through this once. (link)
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Well, since I've been in your situation before, I'll try my best to help you.
What I did when I felt this way, I sat down and talked to someone that knew me well enough to know how I was feeling. I did cut before, and I've learned that it doesn't solve anything. All it does is leave scars to remind you of mistakes that you've made through-out your life.
If talking to a friend doesn't help, maybe you should talk to your parents about having you see a therapist.
But, it is still good to not be shutting out your friends.
I would suggest drugs either, because after a while you will become addicted to them.
Just talk to a friend, your parents, or ask about a therapist.
And you should get a diary to vent about how you're feeling, because I know that always helped me when I was having trouble.
I hope I helped.
And good luck out there in the world, you're going to go far. (:
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Im a female, and I'm 15 years old. Ok so there's this guy I've known since like 2nd grade and we've always been like best friends (He's about a year younger than me)- I've had a crush on him for as long as I can remember, but I never said anything. Well last year around Christmas, I told him how I felt (that I liked him etc.) He said that he liked me back. Then we started making out. Then on Christmas night I spent the night at his house and it was about 1:00am and we were watching tv and we were talking about doing "stuff". Then he fingered me. The next morning it wasn't awkward or anything it was just like things were before. We had previously dry humped.(practically had sex with our clothes on- but it seems like he may have just been messing around.) he's so hard to read. I don't think he knows it but I want to "be with him" (have sex) SO BAD!!! I don't know how he feels, so i don't know what to do, and i don't just want to come out and say hey i want to have sex with you, but i really want to. It seems like everytime I'm around him I just want to jump on top of him, and when we're not together, he's all I think about. I think I'm in love with him. What do you think I should do, and how do I tell him the things I want to do with him without sounding stupid. Please help me. (link)
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Well, for one thing. You have to be careful about sex, because it's a huge step forward in your life, with thousands of consiquences.
But, if you think that you're ready, then maybe you should just do things leading up to it.
And if he's not getting the signals then you should sit down and talk to him about it.
Tell him that you have really strong feelings for him and you don't know if he feels the same, but you're ready for anything. And that you're in love with him.
And if he thinks that you sound stupid, then let him. Because atleast he knows how you feel.
But I wouldn't move too quick, because you also don't want to lose him while in the process of getting to that point.
Hope I helped. (:
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Okay, well i'm 15 female and theres this guy that i've recently started to like alot I had a class with him at the beginning of the year but my schedule got changed so now I have no classes with him, when we had a class together I didnt really talk to him much because i'm really shy and i've never had a boyfriend before, (we sat right next to eachother) but he would always try to start a conversation with me I would respond back but I was really closed off when he tried to get to know me. When he found out that my schedule got changed he told me that he would miss me, and that I should try getting into the class. Also he notices everything like when I get a new outfit or something like that, my mom said thats a good thing :) I was never able to get back into that class but I would always see him in the hallways and he would always say hi to me, I would just smile. But now when he sees me in the hallways he doesnt say anything to me, which makes me kinda upset has he given up on trying to talk to me or what? (link)
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Just because he doesn't say "hi" to you anymore in the hallways, doesn't mean he's not interested. And also, a huge hint that he was interested is that he commented on your outfits, trying to conduct a conversation with you, and he told you that he would miss you.
HUGE HINTS.
He's probably just thinking that you're not interested in him because you didn't try to show as much of an interest in him as he did to you.
So maybe you should start being the one to say "Hello" to him in the hallways, maybe even pass him a little note or something :)
I hope I helped.
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my best friend "maggie" likes this guy, "jason". maggie is an amazing girl, but she is awful with guys. she changes her mind constantly. one day, she'll love a guy, she'll get him to go for her, then she'll decide she doesn't feel the same way about them. that's what she's been like for as long as i know her, and she has a whole lot of guys who hate her. this guy jason is really hot, and i talked to him a little bit in the beginning of the school year, and we have a class together. we're friends. so maggie decides she likes him, just when jason and i start to really talk and be good friends. this was about 2 weeks ago. it kind of made me mad, bc it was completely out of the blue. but whatever. i was talking to jason a few nights ago, and i asked him what he thought of maggie. he said 'ew, no, never! sorry, but i just could never see it happening. she's not my type.' so i asked him what his type was, and he perfectly described me, down to my hair and eye color and the sport i play. i asked him if he had something he wanted to tell me, and he said 'yeah, i gotta crush on you, i have for a while.' now i really don't know what to do, bc jason is a really great guy. i'm thinking maggie's gonna change her mind in a little bit anyway, and jason's not gonna ask me out bc he knows my best friend likes him and he cares about me and doesnt want to mess anything up for me and maggie. but should i tell her that he likes me, and i kinda like him? or should i tell her that he's not interested before she wastes her time or makes a fool of herself? and if i do that, and something happens with me and jason in the future, won't i look like a massive bitch? my conscience tells me to forget about jason and ignore him for now, but what happens when maggie changes her mind about him, like i know she will? would it still be wrong to like jason? help! (link)
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You should definitely go for him. If he's in to you, and you're in to him, then you shouldn't let anything get in your way. But on the other hand, you're like me. You always think about other peoples feelings first, instead of your own. But if he really makes you happy, you shouldn't hide it from her. I mean, best friends are supposed to tell eachother everything correct? And even if it does hurt her, there's plenty of guys out there. And also, she'll get over it. And atleast you're enough of a friend to tell her how you feel.
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hi 14f bf 16 xD
well yesterday i was talking to my bf I said I was going to change my hair. I told him I was going to make my hair wavy and where some makeup. He said "Me no like ;/ " and i asked him what did he meant and he said " I love your hair the way it is and You don't need make up." He said i don't like the girls with the make up that makes them look like clowns, i dont like the bright lipstick, a little eyeliner is fine but you don't need it. soo i like wearing makeup but what makeup should i do that he would approve of? I don't wear it often. Thanks!
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Well, obibiously as you can tell by what he has said, that he doesn't really like you wearing make-up. So, if it makes it a lot easier, ask him what he means by "me no like :/" and just do simply as he says, a little eye-liner or none at all. What he's trying to do is tell you that you're beautiful no matter what you look like :)
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