Question Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:32 am
Hi im 13 years old and im a girl.It's been 4 months that i dont feel any emotions.I only feel anger and sadness.I cry a lot because i have no idea what to do and im seriously thinking about starting to cut myself and im afraid.I dont wanna die at all i wanna live myself.I always play a part when im with my friends.I noticed that a lot of people try drugs becaus the same way that i feel.
I really need advices from people that probably already being through this once.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? MelindaaDarling answered Saturday February 27 2010, 10:43 pm: Well, since I've been in your situation before, I'll try my best to help you.
What I did when I felt this way, I sat down and talked to someone that knew me well enough to know how I was feeling. I did cut before, and I've learned that it doesn't solve anything. All it does is leave scars to remind you of mistakes that you've made through-out your life.
If talking to a friend doesn't help, maybe you should talk to your parents about having you see a therapist.
But, it is still good to not be shutting out your friends.
I would suggest drugs either, because after a while you will become addicted to them.
Just talk to a friend, your parents, or ask about a therapist.
And you should get a diary to vent about how you're feeling, because I know that always helped me when I was having trouble.
I hope I helped.
And good luck out there in the world, you're going to go far. (: [ MelindaaDarling's advice column | Ask MelindaaDarling A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Saturday February 27 2010, 5:06 pm: Cutting yourself isn't going to help it's just going to make the situation worst so i suggest you don't do that there's other ways to solve your
situation & cutting isn't one of them talk to parents tell them how your feeling it's better to talk instead of keeping everything your feeling bottled up inside you & not saying anything at all or say you'd like to go to therapist unless you'd rather talk to your parents and not a stranger drugs
are illegal & those aren't going to help either your
best option would be to talk to your parents & tell them everything your feeling(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
schochie16 answered Saturday February 27 2010, 2:32 pm: Talk to your parents. Maybe they can help you. You might want to go to a theropist. It will help you and give you someone to talk too. DON"T CUT. Thats gross. Besides, it will just hurt. I have never understood why people who are feeling sad and pain want to fix it by inflicting themselves with more pain. Drugs will help you untill the high wears off. Its not worth it. Look into getting a shrink. It will help you soo mcuh. Try to find an activity that you are pasionate about so that you can feel happy when you are doing it.
Running, acting, cooking, writing, whatever.
Go to your local community center and sign up for classes!
Get happy about life again!
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