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13/m
So last Friday was a dance at my school and I went with a girl i like. She and all of her freinds know i like her and her freinds told me if i was to ask her out, shed say yes. So i took the chance and asked her out and she said yes. So now we are dating and this has been my first relationship in well over a year so im a little rusty. This being said im a little reluctantbto saying that i love her or calling her "babe" because i dont want to rush things if you know what i mean. So I was wondering when it would be a good time to start with this and ill take any other relationship tips that you can give me. Thank you for your help and have a nice day.
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well for one thing you are to young to be saying babe or honey etc.. That's not a word for any 13 year old. I have a 14 year old daughter and she doesn't say those words.. I would call her by her name..Don't rush into things..When the right time comes you will know when to call her those names.. and don't let your friends get into your relationship with this girl.. If you really like her and she really likes you it will happen one day.. That's if GOD wants it to happen.. So enjoy your young life and don't rush into things..
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Hi! I'm a teenage girl, and i'm in my first serious relationship. He is a great guy, but i'm confused... He was kissing me once and started kissing my neck and then kissed me again with more force, and i got this really weird feeling in between my legs, like it felt hot down there. What does that mean?! I'm confuse,d i think i know what it is but i'm not sure. Please help (link)
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Well hun that is your female sex organs working.. Your brain is letting you know that wow that feels really good there for you are getting all worked up. and you start getting hot. Its normally to do so.. your body is going into a very sensitivity stage. and before you know it you start to doing more things like touching which leads to sex.. and your too young to be having sex.:) so be careful..choose to do the right thing..
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My husband is currently stationed overseas and I'm suppose to go there but due to custody issues and the hearing officer not having filed the order since 4 months ago I have not been able to go. Since my husband has been overseas he goes out every weekend. When I explained to him why this bothers me he snapped at me and told me I'm basically being selfish and how can I expect him to stay confined to a hotel room and not be out socializing. He also said that I can trust him but he cheated on me before because he was drunk and I'm afraid that it's either going to happen again or already did or is happening. I recently noticed he became friends with a colleague he states he met the first day he was overseas and honestly I don't like that. I don't know what to do. I'm still here battling custody with my ex and I don't know if I should continue to make any attempt to go overseas with my husband. He married me despite having 3 children from a prior relationship but he has never been married and has no children and is young. I'm 30 and he is 27. It's driving me crazy not being able to get the order filed despite the fact that I have a lawyer but now with my husband's frequent outings, I don't know if I should continue trying. (link)
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I know how you feel about the feeling of your husband going out..I was like that at one time. My husband cheated on me. And now he has a son. Its very hard to forget something like that when the man that you love and care for does that to you. He feels that you don't trust him anymore. Well its hard to trust someone when they have cheated on you.Very hard to do. You have every right to be upset with what he is doing. Has he proved to you that he has changed? That's what he needs to do is prove to you that he is not cheating on you so you can gain his trust back. Good luck
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My Boyfriend of 4 months and I just had sex for the first time. Although this was my first time ever, it wasn't his, he's been with other girls of all shapes and sizes. He's very confident in his... sexual abilities. Anyway, we tried it a couple different times, and he just could not hold an erection. He said Its the first time that's ever happened to him, and he didn't know why he couldn't cum. He kept reassuring me that it wasn't me, and that he was interested, but he just couldn't stay hard. I Don't know of any other reasons why this problem would occur if he's done it so much before. is there anything I could do, or are there any other reasons why this could be happening? Thanks guys..
Sincerly, First time Failure. (link)
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does the boy have a weight issue some times when a man has a weight problem things like that happen. or has he started smoking . smokeing can stunt the grow of the mans penis. make him go to the doctor to see if he is ok. and some times when you trying so hard to please your girl it goes limp.
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I know that I probably won't get the answer I'm looking for, and I really hope my question will not be deleted. I just really need some unbiased advice on this problem.
When I have sex with my husband, I can never "finish". It lasts all of two minutes..and I'm left unsatisfied.
Could it be something to do with the fact that hes 31 and has diabetes? Or is it something we could solve more easily?
It's really starting to strain our relationship. (link)
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try some foreplay first before you start having sex, thats the way me and my husband do. it gets you in the mood and him too. and it gets the blood pumping in your female body parts and look out it want belong until you pop first.
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18/f
So I am scheduled to get my next birth control shot on Friday. I was also planning on going to a party later that night. I was wondering if alcohol has any effects with the depo provera birth control shot?? Thanks (link)
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yes there is always side affects when you mixing drugs and alcohol together. never never mix those things together. take care of your body. read the bottles of the pamplets that they give you with your meds and it will tell you.
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I woke up this morning with Violent Stomach Cramps, so bad i almost cried. Initially i thought i had to go to the bathroom, but I was unable to poo. (lol). 40 Minutes later my stomach ache had only gotten worse so i made myself throw up. It was the most painful experience ive been through since ive had surgery like 4 years ago.
My boyfriend and i never use condoms and i was just wondering if painful stomach cramping could be associated with being pregnant?
Any insight would be helpful, thanks! (link)
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when was your last period, and it could be that you are about to start one. have you had a pregancie test done. you could be pregant or had a messcarryage. take yourself to a doctor and tell them what is going on. they can help out.
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So I've been married for a year and a half now. My marriage has been soo very difficult but has gotten a lot better. I have ALWAYS had insecurities with my husband and his female friends. I know this sounds wrong but I just didnt like it when he gave them too much attention, like I didnt wanna share him. The first year of our marriage he pampered my insecurities. He just flat out stopped talking to them, I never told him to but he just decided to do it himself. So for the whole year I was obviously happy with this desicion but as assumed he wasnt cause he says I treated him like he still did. He doesnt do this anymore, he talks to them now and i told him i didnt have a problem with it. But deep down it still bothers me. I never bring it up because I dont wanna start a fight and be so immature but I cant help but to be bothered about it every day. Please dont judge me, I know this sounds ridiculous and immature especially for a married woman.
What can I do to get over this? I'm starting to think I need professional help (but I dont have that option right now, please dont suggest it) because I think I'm just dealing with it and ignoring it rather than just accepting it. Accepting it is something I have tried, Ive even tried asking him if I could get their number to talk to them (since we never see them around) and get to know them, just be friendly. But at one time he said I couldnt have anyones number, but now he says I can. When he said I couldnt the first time it really made me sad, here I am trying my hardest but it felt like he didnt care anymore. I just need to know how to get over this so we BOTH can be happy. I HaTE being so insecure about this. I wish I wasnt like this. Please help.
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for one thing never hide your feelings that does no good at all. You are a women and you dersever to be treated like one. Tell him how you feel no matter how is looks at you or what he says to you.
Show him that you are not going to take his crap at all. If he loves you than he will accept what you have to say. and when you asked for the girl or girls number and he said that you don't need it. No no that does not sound good at all. sounds like he was doing something. i have been married twice my first marriage lasted me 4 years. thank god that is over with. and now i'm married again and been married for 11 years this july. and my husband now did things to me that made me mad really mad and 5 years in our marriage i just stood up one day and put my foot down and told him how i felt and the way that he was treating me was not a good thing. and now he sees that he hurt me all those years. so stand up and so your man what you are made of. let him know how it feels to be hurt.
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my vagina smells like fish, its really gross. i'm so self conscious when doing things with a guy because it smells. is their any way to get the smell to go away besides just washing with soap and water? cause i do that and it doesn't seem to be working out for me :/ thanks (link)
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have you ever heard of useing vingear and water and mixing it together then you squirt it up into you. well this will help with your smelling problems.
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16/f
two days ago i broke up with my boyfriend but we can continue being friends since i'm doing bad in school, so i wanted to focus during school. for my own personal reasons. and later on he decided he didn't want to get back together because he wants his freedom for a while to hang out with his friends and that he'll always love me and there's not going to be a next girlfriend. whether i believe him or not, i do somewhat believe him... because he said his dad only loved his mom for the longest time, and even though his mom is now married to someone else. his dad never stopped loving her. i cried because it was official, and so did he. but i don't feel that sad anymore, maybe because my schedule is different.. i miss seeing his family, talking to him, texting him. so i told him he can text me whenever he wants to or call and i told him not to hesitate because i will answer. and we also agreed we can visit our kids since we have four... (stuffed animals). i guess he just wants some time alone without me while we broke up, but i really do miss him. then there's a guy who i'm interested in, and he does talk to me over facebook, text, and we do sometimes talk on the phone. he also walks me to class and talks to me in person. i'm starting to like him, and what really put me down was that he said he liked this other girl (someone he hasn't met yet) and he's interested because she's pretty. then he's planning to approach her on monday, and part of me is hoping she'll reject him. later on he also told me he never went out with a girl where he liked first, and he only went out with a girl that liked him first. and since i like him first, i don't want to be "one of those girls". i'm debating on whether or not should i wait for him, and maybe he'll never come. so i don't really want to waste my time, it sucks because sometimes i wish he could hug me and stuff... because he even drives over to where i am to comfort me when i'm upset. (just like last night he drove to the park and stayed outside in the cold for 2 hours with me). now, i'm starting to think am i not pretty enough for him? why doesn't he like me? what should i do about the guy i'm interested in, and how can i get over my ex boyfriend... and is there a possible chance where i will see him again? (link)
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boys don't know how they feel for one thing, they think that they want this but they don't. It seems to me that he is getting tired of being tied down with the same girl and that he wants to be with different girls. boys do these things all the time. and he says that he loves you and says that there will neve be another girl in his life. don't you dare believe that junk at all. he is only saying that becasue he knows that you want to here that. you are too young to have a full time relationship. enjoy your young life and one day when the time is right yes that special some one will come into your life and love you for who you are and not what you are.
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I need quick ways to cool off during a fight
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FOR ONE THING STOP FIGHTING. You little boys that fight all the time. you need some good old fashion butt whipping. and i mean that to come from your parents. fighten is not the answer to anything it gets you now here at all but into more trouble than you are already in. next time some one wants to fight you tell them no way.
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is it true that the less often you wear underwear the better your "down there" smells? cause underwear like doesn't let it breathe or something? (link)
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always wear underware. good lord, take a shower and use a soap or body wash. thats where the good smell comes in at. and if you want to smell good down there change your underware every day. but not wearing underware is going to make you red and your skin is going to get all itchy.
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I've had a small bump on the roof of my mouth for a looong time, probably longer than a year. And now there are little white bumps on my tongue (only three) and they hurt a little. I get one once a month, but I don't know why there are three this time. Any ideas what any of these are? The bump on the roof of my mouth seems to be drying out because I'm sick and have to breathe through my mouth~~ I've been sexually active, I'm not at the moment, but I have been. First guy I was with was a virgin, and the bump was there before I had sex with the second guy. I also have low-risk HPV could this be the cause? TY! (link)
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um that does not sound good at all, have you been to a doctor for these bumps. thats where i would start first. they can give you some kind of medicine. and if you are sexually active i would not be doing anything at all, you never know what you could catch. there is alot of nasty things that you can catch while have sex with more that one person, better yet stop haveing sex. but have that mouth checked out. it could be that the first boy that you had sex with has some knid of a fungus growning on his man parts if you are doing things with your mouth stop.
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How do you know to trust somebody? Im seemingly losing all trust in people. My best friend seems to be hiding things from me, people around me are cheating, lying to one another, scheming. I just dont know who or what to people? Why are people so private yet so seemingly open. Or why are they two faced? And how do we know who to trust with our own secrets? I seem to be losing all control over my trust, its just not there in so many cases I don't really know what to do. So many people are telling me not to always be so naive? But what kind of relationship can you have with someone if you don't trust them? Please some one help me with this... What is trust and when should it be given if at all? Who can we truly trust? (link)
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wow that is a tough question. In todays world it is hard to trust anybody,knowing who your true friends are. ITs hard to trust people that you don't really know anything about. Don't tell people anything that you don't want the world to know about. Finding the true friend is the question and finding a person that you can tell your whole life history to is hard to find. first i would get to know these people, you ask what type of person they are, don't ask a person in school, things get started that way. You have some very good questions too. Its best that we keep our secerts to ourselves and not share wtih other people, ask god to guide you to find a true friend to talk to. good luck
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My brother weighs around between 210-220 pounds. I am helping him out so what are some good tips to lose weight fast within a week. What I am looking for is what foods to eat each day and how much of it. Also what excercises he can do at home to speed up the process. Also some ways to trick your body into losing more weight like for example if you excercise your upper body one day then excercise your lower body the next day, it can trick your body or something. (link)
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He needs to go to a doctor and let them check him out they could put him on a special diet, drink lots of water lots, and walk every day. Build yourself up. maybe start at walking 30mins aday, stay away from junk foods, fried foods, these little quick diets are not good for you, when you lose weight with them you gain it back plus more, and it makes it harder to lose the weight. Number one thing is to check with his doctor walk every day and drink lots of water. Eat lots of fruits and veggies. Blueberries are great for loosing alot of weight, i tryed the Acai berry flush its all natural its nothing but berries which is good for our bodies. i have lost alot from that, it flushes you out, it gets the nasty toxins away from you kidnays and other parts of our body where the food packs up. good luck.
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Hi everyone. I asked this question yesterday but I forgot to put in a few details so the answers I was getting weren't exactly correct.
Ok, so firstly, yesterday there was like a million red bugs all over my backyard (on the grass), and there were a lot of white bugs that looked like they were mating & they were just a bit bigger than the red ones.
I know that these bugs are NOT some kind of ants or termites or love bugs.
I live in Victoria, Australia.
There were ants and beetles in the backyard too (not heaps of them though, just a normal amount) and they didnt seem scared or affected by the red bugs.
Last year I saw these bugs on a piece of wood in the backyard and they looked like they were eating it. We got rid of them with fly spray but they came back a while later.
We have tried spraying them with bug spray which does kill them, and then we put some boiling water on the grass near the backdoor so they wouldnt come closer. Then later we checked and they were nearly all gone (it was really weird because just before that there were thousands of them, then they dissappeared), the only ones we could see were hiding in clumps of grass all bunched together and I dont know where all the rest of them went.
They cant fly and the dont have the kind of shape of an ant or termite and they arent clover mites.
Do you think I should get an exterminator? Will it cose much money to get an exterminator? Do exterminaters charge you money even if they dont need to kill anything? Do you think these bugs are dangerous? (link)
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well for one thing the red bugs that you are talking about are called ladybugs and yes they do come out when it is hot weather and they are hard to get rid of, and yes they can bite. I don't know if an exterminator can help you on that matter they might be able to and i would say that yes they will charge you a house visit to see what kind of bugs they are. So good luck on getting rid of them.
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hi 14f bf 16 xD
well yesterday i was talking to my bf I said I was going to change my hair. I told him I was going to make my hair wavy and where some makeup. He said "Me no like ;/ " and i asked him what did he meant and he said " I love your hair the way it is and You don't need make up." He said i don't like the girls with the make up that makes them look like clowns, i dont like the bright lipstick, a little eyeliner is fine but you don't need it. soo i like wearing makeup but what makeup should i do that he would approve of? I don't wear it often. Thanks!
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well little ladie, i say don't wear any makeup at all, you don't want to start it at your age any ways it is bad for your skin. and i would say that you have a very nice boyfriend that is in love with how god made you. Makeup is not what makes us pretty, its who we are on the inside that makes us pretty. Be yourself that is what makes you pretty. And if he does not like that, then you don't need him at all. I hope that i have helped you . Love yourself for who you are and for what god has made of you.
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22/f here. My ex, Nathan, is 24, and my current, Kyle, is 28. This is gonna be a bit long...
I was with Nathan for about 4 years on and off. He was emotionally abusive, but I was addicted to him. Being in the mental health field, I know a lot about addiction and how to overcome it. I broke up with him. We ended things on good terms, but I asked him to let me initiate contact at some point in the future. He has broken this agreement many times already with e-mails telling me how much he loves and misses me.
Now, Kyle and I dated during an off-period with Nathan, but I ended it because I wasn't ready to walk away from Nathan, and I recognized that. I am now, though, and I did...right back into Kyle's arms. Kyle is a wonderful man, and makes me very happy (and is a very good kisser ^_^). I have no intention of leaving him anytime soon.
The problem here is that as much as Kyle denies it, I know I have yet to earn his trust back because of the fiasco that happened with Nathan before. I told him I would keep him in the loop if Nathan decided to try anything, and ideally, Kyle and I would discuss the situation and tackle it as a couple/unit instead of me trying to handle it alone. (I did, however, promise that I would never put them together in any physical way...)
My questions are:
1. Should I tell Kyle about Nathan's recent e-mails?
It risks bringing up a very negative past, and I don't want the focus of our relationship to be how to get Nathan out of it.
2. Should I respond to an e-mail and ask him to leave me alone?
I'm hesitant about this because I know how he works - any attention is better than no attention - but I also know that he doesn't give up easily. The only reason I'm consiering it is that I understand that, legally, if you tell someone to leave you alone and they don't, you can file harrassment charges. I'm not angry at Nathan, or anything, I just don't want him to make my life hell anymore...that's why I broke up with him. I am, however, prepared to take legal action if necessary to get him away from me. He hurt me many times in many ways that could've been seriously psychologially damaging.
Anyway. I apologize for the length of this question, and I'm aware that none of you are lawyers. I'm just looking for some unprofessional, uninvolved feedback on this situation. (link)
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To whom this may concern to. It sounds like you are stuck between two hard spots.You are a young person to be getting into a serious relationship.
I would not get in a hurry about having a full time boyfriend, and i would not go back to the guy that was very abusive to you either. That is not a good relationship. I would stay away from him and no don't answer his emails or how ever he trys to get in touch with you. And if you want to be a truthful person to this other guy then i would tell him. But only if you think that you know and trust him. To tell him these things. I would ask him where is this relationship going to before you open up and start telling him personal things in your life. Good luck.
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