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Husband is overseas and goes out every weekend
My husband is currently stationed overseas and I'm suppose to go there but due to custody issues and the hearing officer not having filed the order since 4 months ago I have not been able to go. Since my husband has been overseas he goes out every weekend. When I explained to him why this bothers me he snapped at me and told me I'm basically being selfish and how can I expect him to stay confined to a hotel room and not be out socializing. He also said that I can trust him but he cheated on me before because he was drunk and I'm afraid that it's either going to happen again or already did or is happening. I recently noticed he became friends with a colleague he states he met the first day he was overseas and honestly I don't like that. I don't know what to do. I'm still here battling custody with my ex and I don't know if I should continue to make any attempt to go overseas with my husband. He married me despite having 3 children from a prior relationship but he has never been married and has no children and is young. I'm 30 and he is 27. It's driving me crazy not being able to get the order filed despite the fact that I have a lawyer but now with my husband's frequent outings, I don't know if I should continue trying.
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I know how you feel about the feeling of your husband going out..I was like that at one time. My husband cheated on me. And now he has a son. Its very hard to forget something like that when the man that you love and care for does that to you. He feels that you don't trust him anymore. Well its hard to trust someone when they have cheated on you.Very hard to do. You have every right to be upset with what he is doing. Has he proved to you that he has changed? That's what he needs to do is prove to you that he is not cheating on you so you can gain his trust back. Good luck
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