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Sex Issues
I know that I probably won't get the answer I'm looking for, and I really hope my question will not be deleted. I just really need some unbiased advice on this problem.
When I have sex with my husband, I can never "finish". It lasts all of two minutes..and I'm left unsatisfied.
Could it be something to do with the fact that hes 31 and has diabetes? Or is it something we could solve more easily?
It's really starting to strain our relationship.
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try some foreplay first before you start having sex, thats the way me and my husband do. it gets you in the mood and him too. and it gets the blood pumping in your female body parts and look out it want belong until you pop first.
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usually, men don't take as long as women to climax. they could be done in as short as 5 minutes when the woman could go on for another 45 minutes. its not either of you, its just the way it works. since i'm no sex doctor, i couldn't give you any real advice, but i can tell you to go and talk to your doctor to see if theres anything you could do to make your sexlife better. unsatisfied sex can lead to a really bad mutual relationship, and has proven to be as affected in the relationship as communication.
with the foreplay thing, maybe after he finishes in sex, he could take care of you. you could use toys, his fingers, his mouth, just talk to him about it, and try the doctor thing. or a couples' counselor. :) take care.
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I don't know about your previous sexual experiences, but most women can't finish from penetration. Just saying.
More foreplay, and try oral.
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Doesn't account for the oral though. Just don't spread your legs till he goes down on you.
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