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I'm really naive
Hi! I'm a teenage girl, and i'm in my first serious relationship. He is a great guy, but i'm confused... He was kissing me once and started kissing my neck and then kissed me again with more force, and i got this really weird feeling in between my legs, like it felt hot down there. What does that mean?! I'm confuse,d i think i know what it is but i'm not sure. Please help
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Well hun that is your female sex organs working.. Your brain is letting you know that wow that feels really good there for you are getting all worked up. and you start getting hot. Its normally to do so.. your body is going into a very sensitivity stage. and before you know it you start to doing more things like touching which leads to sex.. and your too young to be having sex.:) so be careful..choose to do the right thing..
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Sounds like you were a touch aroused, perfectly normal.
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His kissing of you was turning you on. When a female is turned on, whether it ever leads to sex or not, her body is going to go through some changes to prepare itself just in case.
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You will feel tingly or hot. Whats happening is that your parts down there are becoming engorged with blood just as the males penis does. You also can feel wetter there and some of the lubrication your vagina is creating can leak out and dampen your panty. This is all normal.
No one, not parents, not schools do any sex education anymore it seems. So I can understand your not knowing and being confused.
But Hon, this place of knowing next to nothing about your own sexuality let alone his, is a recipe for disaster such as becoming a pregnant teen. I am not saying teens shouldn't explore or have sex but they need to be fully informed before going down that road.
I suggest you do some self studies on learning first about the female anatomy and the physiology of it. Then learn how a female becomes pregnant and learn about the male anatomy.
For example, do you know anything about your hymen, the real facts about it? Do you know the proper care for your vagina when it comes to cleaning? There's a load of important things to study up on and learn if you don't want any problems or any unneeded worries about what your body is going through.
If you do want to get started, let me know, I can share some web links and you can always try the library for books on the subject. If you contact me, go to my column and write me from there.
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