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boyfriend of one year broke up
16/f
two days ago i broke up with my boyfriend but we can continue being friends since i'm doing bad in school, so i wanted to focus during school. for my own personal reasons. and later on he decided he didn't want to get back together because he wants his freedom for a while to hang out with his friends and that he'll always love me and there's not going to be a next girlfriend. whether i believe him or not, i do somewhat believe him... because he said his dad only loved his mom for the longest time, and even though his mom is now married to someone else. his dad never stopped loving her. i cried because it was official, and so did he. but i don't feel that sad anymore, maybe because my schedule is different.. i miss seeing his family, talking to him, texting him. so i told him he can text me whenever he wants to or call and i told him not to hesitate because i will answer. and we also agreed we can visit our kids since we have four... (stuffed animals). i guess he just wants some time alone without me while we broke up, but i really do miss him. then there's a guy who i'm interested in, and he does talk to me over facebook, text, and we do sometimes talk on the phone. he also walks me to class and talks to me in person. i'm starting to like him, and what really put me down was that he said he liked this other girl (someone he hasn't met yet) and he's interested because she's pretty. then he's planning to approach her on monday, and part of me is hoping she'll reject him. later on he also told me he never went out with a girl where he liked first, and he only went out with a girl that liked him first. and since i like him first, i don't want to be "one of those girls". i'm debating on whether or not should i wait for him, and maybe he'll never come. so i don't really want to waste my time, it sucks because sometimes i wish he could hug me and stuff... because he even drives over to where i am to comfort me when i'm upset. (just like last night he drove to the park and stayed outside in the cold for 2 hours with me). now, i'm starting to think am i not pretty enough for him? why doesn't he like me? what should i do about the guy i'm interested in, and how can i get over my ex boyfriend... and is there a possible chance where i will see him again?
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boys don't know how they feel for one thing, they think that they want this but they don't. It seems to me that he is getting tired of being tied down with the same girl and that he wants to be with different girls. boys do these things all the time. and he says that he loves you and says that there will neve be another girl in his life. don't you dare believe that junk at all. he is only saying that becasue he knows that you want to here that. you are too young to have a full time relationship. enjoy your young life and one day when the time is right yes that special some one will come into your life and love you for who you are and not what you are.
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He should accept you for who you are and like you for you & your personality you shouldn't have to change yourself to please him i think you should wait for him things could possiblity change you shouldn't jump to conclusions quickly or assume the
worst until you know what really happens & if for some reason things don't go right then that's a sign
that things weren't meant to be between you two everything happens for a reason you can't make him
like you if he's not interested in you as long as your confident & you believe in yourself then you'll
be fine all boys are different with what they look for in girls they aren't all the same as far as your
ex is concerned i think you should focus on your school work like you orignally planned to do that way you'll be focused on that & not on your ex
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