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how do i know/get him to like me too?


Question Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 12:05 pm

Okay, well i'm 15 female and theres this guy that i've recently started to like alot I had a class with him at the beginning of the year but my schedule got changed so now I have no classes with him, when we had a class together I didnt really talk to him much because i'm really shy and i've never had a boyfriend before, (we sat right next to eachother) but he would always try to start a conversation with me I would respond back but I was really closed off when he tried to get to know me. When he found out that my schedule got changed he told me that he would miss me, and that I should try getting into the class. Also he notices everything like when I get a new outfit or something like that, my mom said thats a good thing :) I was never able to get back into that class but I would always see him in the hallways and he would always say hi to me, I would just smile. But now when he sees me in the hallways he doesnt say anything to me, which makes me kinda upset has he given up on trying to talk to me or what?

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MelindaaDarling answered Saturday February 27 2010, 10:32 pm:
Just because he doesn't say "hi" to you anymore in the hallways, doesn't mean he's not interested. And also, a huge hint that he was interested is that he commented on your outfits, trying to conduct a conversation with you, and he told you that he would miss you.
HUGE HINTS.
He's probably just thinking that you're not interested in him because you didn't try to show as much of an interest in him as he did to you.
So maybe you should start being the one to say "Hello" to him in the hallways, maybe even pass him a little note or something :)
I hope I helped.

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Melody answered Saturday February 27 2010, 9:56 pm:
You don't have to get him to like you. I am pretty sure you've already done that. The fact he always starts coversations with you, comments on your outfits, and tells you he will miss you if you are gone are all pretty big signs he's interested in you.

He has probably given up on trying to talk to you, but not on liking you in general. Since he has stopped talking to you, it's up to you to make the first move. Start saying hi to him, and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. If you are to afraid to ask him out by himself, invite him out with a group of friends. Then try to get to know him. If he sees you making initiative, he will start showing interest again.

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sunshine1232 answered Saturday February 27 2010, 4:49 pm:
If he doesn't say hi to you then you say hi to him you be the one to make the first move and maybe then
he'll create conversation with you i don't think he's given up talking to you seeing as he seemed interested in you in the past if your confident & you believe in yourself then you won't be shy yes him noticing your new outfit is a good thing it's a
advantage for you because he's noticing you and not
ignoring you if you try to create a conversation with him he'll notice you once you do talk to him you could ask him why he stopped saying hi to you if
you'd like(:

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