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i dont know what to do
14-female
so the other week i had a dream i was pregnant and i obviously wasnt cause it was a drea but ever since then i cant stop thinking about being pregnant an sometimes i tend to sick pillows up my jumper to see how it feels to have a baby bump. is this normal i dont know what to do help ?
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dreaming of pregnancy suggests a fairly protracted waiting period necessary for something, possible the completion of a project. oddly to dream of a pregnant seldom actually means ones own pregnant although it can indicate pregnancy for someone around us. another meaning centers around being patient and waiting for a natural process to take place so that we can fulfill a task.
this is very normal :).
also, some woman older or younger get the urge to have a baby. they see them on the street and they think ohh what wonderful joy. some woman get so caught up in wanting one they get pregnant and during the pregnancy they get really thinking and ask if this is the right thing for me.
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You need to keep telling yourself YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG. I really think you should try spending time with someone that has a few kids and maybe then you will change your mind. Babies are cute yes, but they are MUCH more than just cuteness. Cribs alone cost 100 and up, Then you got the car seat that is 100 and up also...Then Formula, diapers, clothes, stroller, toys, and a million other things. Not to mention babies need regular doctors checkups and that if you don't have medical insurance is very expensive. They cry whenever they please and even if this means 2,3,4 in the morning. You need to get that out of your mind, You are just a kid. In my opinion people really should not be having children unless they are a good age and that means OVER 18. Have a good job (not minimum wage) A car, Their own place and have a steady relationship and by that meaning (Dating more than a year) Babies are forever, You can't get bored of them because once you have them they are YOUR responsibility. They are not a puppy where you can take care of it and leave it alone for a few hours. The baby will ALWAYS be there, When your sick and dead tired that baby will always need care.
You are young, You are not ready to have a baby. Enjoy life as a teenager and get yourself through High School.
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I'd say it's very normal. Your maternal instincts are developing. Have you gotten your period yet? maybe it's a sign that it's coming.
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