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not a virgin, but might as well be?


Question Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 10:43 pm

sooo, i had sex with the boyfriend i had a while back, i know it wasn't the smartest thing and i actually did fall deep in love with him and then it ended... i don't remember much about loosing my virginity, but i do remember that we actually had to try a few times for me to actually let him go all the way in. Well now, i'm with my current boyfriend who i've known my entire life, and we care soo much for eachother. he hasn't had sex and i have with one other person, i'm not sure what it is but it's hard for me to do it with him. We tried it one night and we were both ready, and i couldn't ler myself untense my legs, and i think it had to do with being nervous about someone walking in, but i did let him in a little, and it hurt, just like i remembered, and he couldn't stand hurting me so he stoped, now i regret him stoping and we both want to do it again, i'm just not sure if i'm good at it, or if he is, or if im more scared because i know its his first time.
HELP.

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MelindaaDarling answered Sunday February 28 2010, 11:03 am:
Well, there's a first time for everything. If you don't remember something, it probably wasn't good enough to remember. (;
But anyways, maybe you should do it somewhere that you know someone won't walk in.
Like, a weekend your parents won't be home, or something like that.
And it's going to hurt. Because you haven't had sex in awhile, so yeah..
And if you or him aren't good at it, how would you know!? You've only had sex with one other person, and you hardly remember it.
Just be happy that you're both with eachother and doing it. (:
There's nothing wrong with being bad if you both are with eachother.
I hope I helped.

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