ok. during spring break me, and my friends (c,t, j, and d) hung out. well t and j were together, and c and d were. well c and d arent together anymore, and this happened like, about a week or 2 ago. well me and d were good friends. last night i get a text from him and hes like:
d:lets hook up
me:you dont mean that
d:i really do i wanted to hook up i just didnt know how to tell you i promise you
me:well, we'll see
d:let's hang out tonight
me:maybe..
d:whats wrong
me:nothing
d:what you dont want me
me:i never said that, im just thinking about c
d:well she wont find out and i promise youll like it
i really want to but i dont think it would be good. like c liked him and now he wants to hook up with me? i dont know though. i think it would just be a one time thing. likes hes using me. but i dont know... help?
HereForYou answered Monday April 23 2007, 11:12 am: Hey there! My advice to you is no matter what..do not go behind c's back! Because it's not loyal and when she finds out she'll be heartbroken!
Anyways you have to think about d...seriously think about it because he just broke up with c...is he a good guy? Is he worth it..because there might be a slight chance that things will go wrong with c?? how much do you like this guy?
You have to make the decision by yourself, no one else can make it for you! It's your choice! But if you decide to hook up with d...then you have to talk to c and tell her! Tell her how you feel about d and that d wants to hook up with you. See how c feels about this..but i think it's a bit too soon to bring up the subject since they brok up recently! Because it shows that d can move on pretty quickly and wasn't serious about c the whole time! But if c looks alright and isn't thinking about it too much then talk to her and start opening up! I don't know if i helped! But good luck with everything! Tell me what you're going to do! tc <3 [ HereForYou's advice column | Ask HereForYou A Question ]
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