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should I tell him?
17/F. So i just recently started dating My current boyfriend, its been almost a month now. But the problem is my ex is still "in love" with me. I havent told my ex about my current boyfriend because I think it would hurt him too much. Would it be better if i just told the ex, and not spare breaking his heart.. again. Or would it be better if I just waited til my ex has moved on and got over me before telling him? As of right now, me and my current boyfriend are pretty low key, and only people who see us together or kiss know.. so its not likely that my ex will find out from someone else, and i want to be the one to tel lhim.. im just scared of he will react.. because i know itll hurt him deeply. Any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated! :)
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You shouldn't wait telling him that you have a new man/boy in yuor life. Doesn't matter how much you think he won't find out from some one else, he might. Like you said you want to be the first one to tell him. Its no better time than the present. Even if it hurts atleast its coming from some one he cares about and not just anyone. It will hurt more if he finds out that you weren't the one to tell him.
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you should definitely tell him. if he doesn't know about your new boyfriend and you keep talking to him, it definitely seems like you're leading him on. and if your new boyfriend finds out that you're talking to your ex who still 'loves' you, and haven't told him you have a new boyfriend, it could raise some red flags. the way i see it, your ex is your ex for a reason, it's better to keep things good with your new boyfriend than worry too much about your ex's feelings. hope i helped(:
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You need to tell your ex, if you allow him to continue to send you messages and stuff, your just leading him on.
Its not bad to be low-key, but you really shouldnt let your ex think he still has a chance with you, It could cause problems with your current boyfriend if he ever found out.
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