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akward to date an instructor?


Question Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 12:41 am

would it be weird if i dated one of my taekwondo instructors? he is 18 im 16, were both interested in eachother he even called me beautiful last class

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schochie16 answered Saturday February 27 2010, 12:37 pm:
I guess it is up to you. If you would be embaressed to be seen with him or hes going to make class weird then don't do it.
I would talk to him about maintaining a sence of professionalism in class. He shouldn't be calling you out.
But if you won't make it akward then go for it. Every situation is awkward if you make it. Just talk to him like hes anyone else, but don't act like a couple in class. THAT would be awkward for everyone else.

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JasmineandSydney answered Saturday February 27 2010, 1:38 am:
We honestly think that that is no where near weird. You guys are only 2 years apart frome each other, and if you're falling for him just as much as he's fallin for you than it must be written in the stars for you guys have had to met each other. Just follow your heart,and you'll never go wrong.

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday February 27 2010, 1:07 am:
He is in a position of authority teacher/student and he MUST learn to act like it in CLASS. It's NOT right for him to be making advances on any student in front of the student body.

He shouldn't be referring to you as beautiful either as it puts out a weird message. It has to be all about the martial arts while taking class. If he can't keep it separate between a teacher/student role in class and an adult relationship outside of class it would be wrong.

All of this is moot if you met outside of class and decided to date. Even if you met him in class you can date but not make it a focal point in class. Keep it strictly teacher/student while there. He sounds like an ideal person for you.

As long as none of his advances are creeping you and others out no harm done. You can't deny attraction or your heart.

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