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Matters of the mind, heart, and gut
I am going to give a little background first then I will ask my questions.
I am 21 and a female.
As I was growing up I noticed that I had several dreams actually come true. Also as a child I would ask God to show me who my future husband would be. After a few months of asking God for some hint as to who he would be, I started to dream about this person with a blurry face except for the eyes. As I got older the guy's face became clearer and clearer.
I am now in a relationship with a guy that has everything I could ever want, but he is not the face I see in my dreams. My gut is telling me to keep searching for this other guy, but my mind knows I found the perfect guy for me. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend but at the same time how can I stay true to him when my dreams and heart belong to another? How do I explain this to him? Also should I listen to my gut or to my head? Please if you can help I would really appreciate it. If you have questions for me about more details let me know.
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I think you should listen to your head and be happy with your boyfriend because perfect boys are hard to find seeing as every boy is different & girls all look for different things they want from boys be honest and truthful with your boyfriend be straight forward explain your dream to him i'm sure he'll understand if you think you've found the perfect boy then you should stay with your current
boyfriend it would be ashame to ruin your relationship seeing as not most girls aren't as lucky to have a good relationship like you've got if in the future another boy comes along well then so be it(:
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In the question you stated should you listen to your gut or your head what about your heart? You shouldn't always listen to your dreams though. It could be a dream of what you think could be your perfect man but not be what you need in your life. God can also put what you don't need in a dream. If this is man is as perfect as you say, go for it. But only you wil know for sure.
Lillian
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Why mess with a good thing? If your happy with this guy, then just enjoy the time you have with him!
If you think that someday this other guy might come along, then it'll all work out. Dont look for him, just let it happen.
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