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cheating
i love my husband very much and we have no problem other than he watches porn and looks at other women i tell him that it called cheating.but he always denies it but i see it in the history of my computer on on the tv how can i stop him .what should i do.if he keeps lieing
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You should really tell him that when he looking at other woman and watching porn it makes you feel like you are not good enough for them and that he is comparing you. tell him that you are not changing to be like other woman because you are you and you know who you are and if you want someone like that then go for them. You deserve respect and why should he be looking at other woman? You're the one he married. Ask him how he would feel if you were doing the same thing? tell him you don't agree with it. it's one or the other (you or the pornstars/other woman on the street) good luck! you deserve a man who has all eyes for you :)
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He obviously donesn't consider porn cheating. He thinks that you need to be physicly with another women. IF this is not what you think then sit him down and tell him.
Give him and ultimatim. Say its you or the porn.
Suggest ways to help him kick this habbit tell him that you know it is going to be hard, but you are willing to help him through it and be there for him.
Hope I helped
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Personally i dont believe porn is cheating, but if it bothers you, then you should sit him down and have a relaxed conversation about it. Just let him know that it bothers you. Explain that it makes you feel like your not good enough for him.
Ways to keep him off the porn, spice up your love life! Dress in something a little sexier, put on a show, some role-playing, or even introduce some toys into your sex!
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