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How can I stop lusting after my straight friend?


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 6:27 pm

Im 14f and have known I was bi or gay all my life, and im comfortable with it.my best friend...ive had a crush on her for years.she knows I do, but it hurts sometimes, I really like her shes straight.im cool with our friendship.its amazing, but how can I stop you know...likeing her in that way so muxh? Cant get over it.

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I want to be pregnant


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 12:00 pm

We had sex 4 times on my first to fertile days, 3 times on the day I was ovulating, and 2 times on my last day being fertile. Today is the day I am supposed to start my period. It is not here yet, however it is only 9am. I really want to be pregnant but I don't want any of my family to know we're trying unless it happens. How long should I wait before taking a test?

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What's my teacher trying to say?


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 10:54 am

A few weeks ago a teacher left my school and, as I was very close to him, I got him a thank you card (he's helped my an awful lot over the past year - almost acting as a psychologist for me). When I gave him the card he said that he'd open it when I wasn't there if I wanted (I told him he could open it then). I didn't think much of it but then my friend came in and gave him a card and he just opened it straight away without saying anything.

I didn't think much of it at the time but then I was talking to my friend a few days ago and she said that sounded a bit weird. Now I'm really worried about what he'd thought I'd written in the card or something... And thinking back he's said other things to me like 'you hide a lot' and 'i...

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too much salt


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 10:37 am

I made beef gravy, and added too much salt. Is there a way to cut the saltiness in the gravy?

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Can't forgive emotional affair.


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 8:19 am

Hi. About 6 months back I found that my husband had an emotional affair. I confronted him and he claimed is not true. later I found proof that he in fact was emotionally attached to a woman who was also married. It turned into an ugly fight and we were seperate for a month. He asked me to return for the sake of our children. He had still not acknowledged nor apologised for his cheating. I can't sleep at times thinking about this. I start crying mid day when no one is at home.
He still had contact with her but for completely different reasons,and I believe it 100%. But I cannot believe and accept the fact that he was emotionally intimate with another woman. I don't know how to forget and foregive him. We are back in our relationship...

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Dying my hair blonde again?


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 6:21 am

So my natural hair color is dark blonde,but i dyed it black in may and now i really regret it,is there anyway to get it blonde again??? please help me

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Does she like me?


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 5:56 am

So I'm a girl and Im really confused. I think im straight because I like guys but somehow, I can't really stop thinking about her.
I'm not sure if she is a lesbian though but I felt that she is one and people have said that she was one and all...
It was like all of a sudden I suddenly realized her and on that day, we did have eye contact maybe twice or so? The first time, we looked at each other and the second was when I looked at her and I saw her looking then we looked at each other before I broke off the eye contact.
However, on Monday when I went back to school, she never looked at me because whenever I look at her, she would not be looking more like staring into space. I observed and realized that she kinda keep...

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Is it possible for me to get pregnant when your a virgin


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 3:49 am

im wondering if I could get pregnant because im a virgin but when he tried to put it in I pulled on the condom could it be a possibility that the condom broke and at that time he had a strong erection


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help


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 3:00 am

Firstly is xasten for gaining weight and I urinate often at mid nite

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Breaking Up is Hard to do


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 2:40 am

I love my boyfriend dearly but after a few years of dating it's become apparent that he is not what i need in a partner. The relationship has gotten too "comfortable" and he does not make me feel special. I have cried to him about how i need him to be more outwardly loving towards me but it has not had any effect. Ive realized he's just not that kind of guy. I think i need to end it now (we will be apart for a few months), but how do i break up with someone i love? Yes, my life has revolved around him for years, but i am not happy and nothing seems to be changing. The question is not "do i end it", but how do i mourn the loss of my best friend? There are many things i will miss but i cant stay with someone who makes me unhappy. Please help me find some peace of mind

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I'm not myself anymore.


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 2:32 am

I used to be an artist, back in school. I used to be a musician. That weird kid who knows he's weird and doesn't care, because that's who he is.

So what if many people didn't like me because of who I was? So what if they mocked me and tried to make me feel bad? It never worked, because the friends I had loved me for it.

I had skills that even I can't imagine(not being cocky, others always thought better of my art and music than I did), and I loved to draw and paint and play guitar and keyboard. I could sit down with nothing but a piece of paper and a box of charcoal and get lost in time for who knows how long, visiting places I'd never been, places no one had ever been, just completely in tune with mysel...

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Lonely at college this summer :(


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 9:32 pm

Hi,
I'm 18 f - I got into college this year. I decided to start college early and registered for classes during the summer quarter. Now I'm here and I've been taking classes for 3 weeks. I have a problem that's been giving me a lot of trouble lately- I feel like such a loner because I'm always eating by myself in the dining hall.

I love my classes and the campus is amazing. My problem is that there aren't many people here over the summer. So there are no student clubs and all of the student centers around campus are closed until the Fall Quarter. So I only meet people in class, the dorm and at a church.

My classmates are nice- sometimes I hang out with a few of them- but all of them are sophomores or old...

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rash down there..


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 8:19 pm

14/f and I've been realizing that Im super itchy on like the flat part of my privates where all the pubic hair grows.. i do shave that area and i think a razor mightve irritated the area because its always itchy and i looked the other day ans theres a buncj of red spots like a rash.. im not going to a doctor but what do i do?

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spanish hmwk please help!


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 5:46 pm

I did most of my spanish hmwk, 6 freaking chapters in two months so please dont feel the need to lecture me on how i should do my own work caise ik ik but im desperate. School starts in a week and i need to have all this done and im too distracted and anxious to get the rest of this done. So can someone please give me a link to Prentice hall realidades 2 writing, audio&video answer key for chapters 8b,9a,9b. I only need the writing part and please give me a free, accessible website. I'll be so grateful. Thank you!!

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can a 17 yr old get prego?


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 3:55 pm

I am 17 and don't know so can a 17 yr old get prego? I need to know because I want to have sex...

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Texting a Girl


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 3:08 pm

Hi,

I'm a thirteen-year-old girl who is probably bisexual, and I have a crush on another girl. She's absolutely amazing. She's gorgeous, thoughtful, and funny, and we have a lot in common -- for example, we both love writing. She's bisexual too, and there's also a chance that she might like me back.

Whenever she sends me a text, I get the butterflies and want to say something back. We have been texting each other for a few days now, and I want to reveal to her that I like her without making it too direct -- like I want to flirt with her while texting.

If you have any advice on how to flirt while texting without making it too direct, I would really appreciate it. Thank you!

(P.S. I ...

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My husband has very little patience with me and blows up about small things


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 12:44 pm

First of all, my husband has many excellent qualities. He works very hard, is a great provider, and a loving, hands on father to our three kids. But, he was sexually abused as a preteen by a family friend. His parents were never really around, and he was supposed to be homeschooled but really only has the equivalent of an 8th grade education. He has worked hard to overcome this and owns a successful business. He had a horrible upbringing, and I know that is the reasoning for many of his actions. First of all, he drinks everyday. He doesn't drink and drive, and he doesn't go to bars, but he unwinds each night with a few vodka and cranberries. I feel like he uses this to cope with painful memories and to help deal with the stress of l...

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How to say this assertively?


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 7:05 am

I find it difficult to be assertive at work.
There is a task at work that I keep being made to do, and I find it extremely stressful.
I am expected to do it because they took the time to train me, and because its expected of me as an employee who has been there for years (compared to people who have been there for only months).
The problem is, every time I tell my bosses that I don't want to do it, they don't really understand. When I am rostered on to do it, I refuse to, and I make them find someone else to do it. I have said to them "I already told (our store manager) and (our rostering manager) that I can't do it", and I have told them I don't want to do it because it is stressful and makes me anxious. No ...

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I'm Not Sure What To Do About My Tightness


Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 3:20 am

15/F

Okay. At my age, I do not plan on having sex. I know too many of my former classmates have already been around the block and caught what it has to offer. I actually DO want to go to college. I'm not going to jeopardize that by doing something stupid. However, I have made a few attempts to masturbate and I've found that even if I only use one finger, I'm pretty tight down there. This only makes the whole thing uncomfortable and sometimes painful. I don't really have free time to find what works for me because I constantly have to watch my sister, which is why I try late at night when my family is asleep. What I'm asking is if there's any way to loosen myself up, what is it? Thank you in advance.

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Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 2:48 am

Okay. So. I met this guy named Maik( but you just pronounce it Mike) I met him on Omegle. Its a online chatting thing. And well he looked older.. He lookes about 16.. So when he asked me how old i was. I said 16.. But turned out he was 14. And im 12.. I never knew that we would become such good friends.. But we did... And i want to tell him. But i dont know how. I just dont want to loose him.. </3 Please help. :c

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