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Does she like me?
So I'm a girl and Im really confused. I think im straight because I like guys but somehow, I can't really stop thinking about her.
I'm not sure if she is a lesbian though but I felt that she is one and people have said that she was one and all...
It was like all of a sudden I suddenly realized her and on that day, we did have eye contact maybe twice or so? The first time, we looked at each other and the second was when I looked at her and I saw her looking then we looked at each other before I broke off the eye contact.
However, on Monday when I went back to school, she never looked at me because whenever I look at her, she would not be looking more like staring into space. I observed and realized that she kinda keeps to herself.
Yesterday, when we were being briefed, she came to the front and talked to the people who are her friends and I was staring then after a while, she looked at me and then I immediately looked down.
Does she like me or is she just curious whatsoever?
Thank you for taking your time to read :)
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Eye contact could mean A LOT and I mean A LOT of things... I won't be naming all of'em but I can assure you IT IS NOTHING! simply NOTHING!
Until a day comes and she tries to somehow talk to you or does actually talk to you, then this MIGHT and I repeat MIGHT mean Interest ...
DO NOT listen to rumors, they're total bullshit, they can make up billions of stories about people, talk is very cheap, so don't worry just keep it neutral hun! ^^
Gd luck^^
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So eye contact is a sign that somebody is interested in you, but it's one of the hardest signs to tell because some people look at people often even if they aren't crushing on them.
So I think you're reading a little too into it. I mean there is a possibility, but there also is a chance that she isn't.
For one, you don't even know if she's a lesbian. These are just things you've heard so you don't want to assume before you find out the facts. A feeling you have and other peoples gossip isn't reliable.
My friend in college did a report on people liking other people when they find out they like them or think they like them. For example, say Joe likes Sally. Sally never really noticed Joe but once she found out Joe liked her, she started noticing him and ended up liking him.
I've actually noticed this happening with a lot of my friends and it happened to me once. So this could be the case with you.
Anyways, like I said, don't read too much into it. You should go talk to her and get to know her.
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I think she knows you like her.
I also think, please don't get upset, but that you are reading way to much into this. Simply looking someone in the eye for a few seconds does not mean that they fancy you. Often, as well, if you THINK someone fancies you, you begin to develop feelings for them.
They say if eye contact lasts for more than 5 seconds it may be something.
You need to watch for other body language signs such as open ness and things.
But if I'm honest, I think you should focus on your studies and not on who you're studying with. Its natural to crush on people, but clearly thinking about this girl is distracting you in class.
Also, most of the time I find people ask you out when you're least expecting it and are totally absorbed in something else.
Whilst this girl may like the attention you're giving her, be careful not to alienate her. By acting cool and intelligent in class, it'll make you stand out, rather than drooling over her!
I think its early days. Look out for the odd sign, but certainly don't sit in lesson daydreaming and drawing conclusions about your love life. You'll thank me later when you've got a decent job ;)
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