Is it possible for me to get pregnant when your a virgin
Question Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 3:49 am
im wondering if I could get pregnant because im a virgin but when he tried to put it in I pulled on the condom could it be a possibility that the condom broke and at that time he had a strong erection
1. You would know if the condom broke or tore it is usually quite obvious.
2. Sperm must be present. Meaning your boy friend had to ejaculate or he had what is called precum present on his penis. Both the ejaculate and the precum contain sperm. Sperm is what causes pregnancy.
3. Did he actually get his penis inside you, all of him or just the head. If so you are no longer a virgin. Did the condom break inside you or outside you. if it did indeed break and did so inside you then there is the possibility you could get pregnant.
4. If this happened within the last 48 to 72 hours go to the pharmacy and get the plan B pill if you are 16 years old or older you do not need a prescription or parental permission. The plan B pill is most effective at this time but can be taken up to a week after intercourse and has been known to be effective.
You and your boyfriend need to learn more about sex before attempting intercourse again. A condom when properly worn is 85% effective in preventing pregnancy. Once rolled onto his penis there is no reason for you to pull on it. As long as he is erect and wearing one that fits correctly it will stay on him.
While you're searching the web look at a federal law called HIPPA. There is a section in that law for young people 14 and older covering medical privacy concerning their reproductive system. Under this provision you can ask your doctor for birth control without parental permission. If you're going to have sex and you're not yet an adult you will need to know about this law to ask for birth control so you can be protected.
Last but not least. Based on your question your knowledge of sex is very weak. This tells me you may be quite young, too young to be having sex. Many a young boy tells their girlfriend if you love me you will have sex with me. If this is the reason you are trying to have sex with your boyfriends it is for the wrong reason. Young boys confuse love and lust. He does not love you as you may love him. He lusts for you and that is not a reason to be having sex with him. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday August 28 2013, 6:11 pm: Yes it is possible. There is lots of information available on the internet to learn more on the topics of sex, all it involves, our sexualilty, and relationships. etc. Schools rarely teach sex ed or any of real quality. So hon, you are going to have to self educate because, it is dangerous to mess around with having sex when there is so much you don't know yet. It may also be a good thing for you to plan a trip to Planned Parenthood for some more trustworthy birth control.
I wouldnt rely on condoms for several reasons...one being rubber or latex can give the female rashes or itching if her skin is sensitive and reacts to that, rubber and latex can get old and have an expiration date so they become more likely to rip or tear, or there can be some pinholes in it that you just cant see, or the condom remains inside you when he slips back out. this happened when he lingers a moment or so and shrinks back down fast. Its happened to me several times. Or the condom just isn't a good fit on the guy and his fluids can leak out sideways. Luckily I was on birth control and was using condoms for std prevention. But I have experienced all of the examples I just gave you.
Best of wishes to you. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday August 28 2013, 1:48 pm: Being a virgin does not mean you have an extra layer of protection! Of course you can get pregnant. You had sex, therefore you are no longer a virgin. Just like it is possible for a girl to lose her virginity and become pregnant during the same period of sexual intercourse. [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
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