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I'm Not Sure What To Do About My Tightness
15/F
Okay. At my age, I do not plan on having sex. I know too many of my former classmates have already been around the block and caught what it has to offer. I actually DO want to go to college. I'm not going to jeopardize that by doing something stupid. However, I have made a few attempts to masturbate and I've found that even if I only use one finger, I'm pretty tight down there. This only makes the whole thing uncomfortable and sometimes painful. I don't really have free time to find what works for me because I constantly have to watch my sister, which is why I try late at night when my family is asleep. What I'm asking is if there's any way to loosen myself up, what is it? Thank you in advance.
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The hymen or tighter ring of skin can over time be stretched out. Try using a lube of some sort with using a finger. Lube cuts the pull on the skin so it's not as uncomfortable. You just may have low tolerance for discomfort so you will slowly have to push yourself to continuous work that area. Its like a rubber band in its natural state but with pressure applied, can be stretched out much farther to eventually be able to fit a dildo or vibrator.
There is no special trick to loosening yourself up down there. Think about this, the skin there can stretch quite a ways at some point in life, such as when having a baby. And eventuallly it goes back to its usual size.
The less attention a womans vagina gets, the tighter it can get over time so if a divorced woman finds years passing by and she doesnt used dildos, then the next man she's with could find her to be as tight as a virgin again. So the key here is to work on stretching that area, not just every once in a while but every day. and u will begin to see a difference.
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