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Texting a Girl
Hi,
I'm a thirteen-year-old girl who is probably bisexual, and I have a crush on another girl. She's absolutely amazing. She's gorgeous, thoughtful, and funny, and we have a lot in common -- for example, we both love writing. She's bisexual too, and there's also a chance that she might like me back.
Whenever she sends me a text, I get the butterflies and want to say something back. We have been texting each other for a few days now, and I want to reveal to her that I like her without making it too direct -- like I want to flirt with her while texting.
If you have any advice on how to flirt while texting without making it too direct, I would really appreciate it. Thank you!
(P.S. I know I'm only thirteen and that it seems like it would be a little too early to decide my sexuality. But I have known for a while that I see girls in the same way I see guys. I am aware that this might change later.)
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A couple days only? Sweety, I know that the beginning of everything is really exciting and you think you'll feel that way forever, but things change. I don't think you should tell her just yet that you like her. Wait a little bit longer. Don't rush into things especially if you don't know for sure if you're bisexual. Like I said, things change. And about flirting, it's always direct. You can't secretly hide trying to flirt.
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It's the same as texting a guy or anyone you feel like flirting with.
I'd probably compliment them. Also, it's good to pick out something that you notice about her that isn't so obvious. Those kinds of things mean a lot to someone.
Teasing works too. Just don't get mean. Like a silly tease can be considered flirting.
You also don't want to be too eager. Just your normal subtle flirting that can make her smile and make sure you know when to stop texting. You don't want to keep texting her all day.
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I am not bi myself but I realise that flirting is flirting whether with a guy or a girl. So whatever you would normally say to a guy, it would seem logical to try the same on a girl.
For example, I don't see non bi girlfriends saying things like, "I love the sound of your laugh. I love your eyes, I find myself unable to tear away from looking at them. You have such soft looking hair that it makes me want to run my fingers through it.
I can see myself saying that to a guy and it sounds flirty saying the same to a girl. If she doesnt get the hint from you saying stuff like that, you may have to ask directly. I was having a great time at a party, not drunk, just being my social self when one lady present asked me if I was bi. I told her I wasn't. She thought I was by how I carried myself. So I suppose that there may be signals a person can give off that may make them seem to be bi to a pretty much stranger but I am assuming you know this girl pretty well.
Good luck.
Okay, maybe it sounds corny
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