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My cousin won't talk to me


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 7:29 pm

A few years ago, me, my brother, and my two cousins would hang out a lot. But i would sometimes complain. When an accident would happen, i would blame it on my cousin (its a guy cousin). But in reality it wasn't his fault. I would keep insisting it was. But this would happen frequently. we were about ten years old. And now its about for years later. Were teens. I really want to apologize because i truly, deeply regret it. But the problem its he stopped talking to me. I don't know if its too late to apologize. He doesn't seem to hate me too much but i don't know what to do.

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Disorder & Confindence


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 6:46 pm

Hi I am a fourteen year old girl. Last December I read a paragraph about depersonilization disorder and I've heard if you keep thinking about it you will eventually 'get' the disorder. Long story short, I worried about getting this disorder for about nine months but I haven't had any of the symptoms and I really don't want to 'get' this disorder. How do I forget about this disorder? I am healthy but I'm always worried something is wrong with me. How can I build my confindence?

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No Reply to Email


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 5:27 pm

I have a question regarding email etiquette. I am the type of person that responds to emails fairly quickly, same day or next day for the most part, unless I am extremely busy or forget. I try not to get frustrated when others do not respond in a timely manner, as reasons for delayed or absent response are varied. I still wonder sometimes whether no response means the other person is just busy, or disinterested.

I recently went in to speak to a speech pathologist regarding volunteering at her office. She let me observe one session, and when it was time to leave, I was trying to figure out which days I would be available to volunteer in the future. There was some back-and-forth talk and misunderstandings, so she told me to ju...

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Crush? touch barrier? Sensei? help!


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 4:41 pm

Ok so (please awnser the question i asked. I dont care if you think my crush is innapropriate etc etc etc. dont bash it! i will ignore you.) Now,i am seriously crushing on my jitsu sensei. he's a bit older than me but he's single and simply amazing! sweet, makes me feel safe etc. the re is no "touch barrier issue while we are training and are apartners as it is the nature of the sport to be in close and lots of... body contact. i always stay later after class, because my bus doesnt come until 1030 so there is no reason to walk to the bus stop and wait alone when i can stay at thje dojo a bit long... and talk to him *blushes*. he makes me laugh about the silliest stuff and we get a long really well. i trust him so much he is one of the...

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Bullies Bullying


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 4:20 pm

So I'm in high school and im 17, I use to be friends with this girl but then she slept with my boyfriend and we have hated each other ever since. I spread a rumor about her saying she had std's (she really does) and I know that was wrong and if I could take it back I would but she came up to me threatened to fight me in front of people at school and she said to watch my back. I'm not afraid of her at all but I told my crew about it, who are over 18 and they messaged her on facebook saying that if she laid a hand on me that she would regret it. I just want to know how much trouble could I get in from spreading a rumor and how much trouble she can get in for threatening to kick my ass. I know its stupid high school drama but I don't want to get the cops involved. how should I handle it?

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making my boyfriend hard


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 4:00 pm

Everytime me and my boyfriend want to have sex it takes forever for him to get hard, I don't do the whole strip tease lap dance or dress up. What are some ways to make him hard fast?

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whats gonna work?*


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 2:03 pm

Heyyy..... So I like pleasing myself. But I do it like once in a month of two. I'm up to 2 vingers almost 3 (I have smAll hands) anayway I tried difrent tings but it doesn't fit* and its sorta painfull when I forse it and then I lose the feeling...* also I wanna have sex but I dunno with who ( I'm not that pretty) and I'm afraid of the fact that I'm loosing my virgin...* is it gona be painfull?* please help!* thx !!

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Suicidal way out


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 1:35 pm

Hi, my name is jhon and im 21 years old, I live in CT and i've been planning to end my life, its a long story, i wish it didnt have to be this way. I came to the u.s in 2007 i was 16, i got in high school unfortunately i met some "friends" that used to smoke weed and skip school all day, decision i regret now, I didnt care about anything I did'nt even know how life really was. I dropped out school and started looking for jobs, then i met a girl that soon would become my girlfriend, long story short, i was irresponsible and immature and i ended up quitting or losing a few jobs that was back in 2010/2011 but ive been struggilng since i got here, now 2013 i had a really good job traveling it seemed promising i was happy becaus...

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Suicide: So much has happened to me, that I don't know how to come back from it all


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 12:21 pm

Hi, my name is jhon and im 21 years old, I live in CT and i've been planning to end my life, its a long story, i wish it didnt have to be this way. I came to the u.s in 2007 i was 16, i got in high school unfortunately i met some "friends" that used to smoke weed and skip school all day, decision i regret now, I didnt care about anything I did'nt even know how life really was. I dropped out school and started looking for jobs, then i met a girl that soon would become my girlfriend, long story short, i was irresponsible and immature and i ended up quitting or losing a few jobs that was back in 2010/2011 but ive been struggilng since i got here, now 2013 i had a really good job traveling it seemed promising i was happy becaus...

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Bachelors degree in Community Health or in nursing


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 12:13 pm

I will recieve my bachelors degree in community health(public health) in december then I will be done with school and ready to work. The problem is I dont think I will like it im not sure what I will be doing for a job and I just started an internship to find out. I am more of a structured person and I like to know what I have to do or will be doing everyday like a nurse. There is a program that I want to do but not sure if I should stress myself out after already doing 5 years of college. I am 22 years old. Since I will have a bachelors degree their is a program that will allow me to do 16 months all year round of really fast and hard school to get my bachelors in nursing. The problem is it requires that before I apply I would have to take...

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Is it worth moving or should I stay in this expensive place


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 12:07 pm

I have to notify my office of the complex that I live in about renewing the lease or moving. I only have 6 days to let them know otherwise they charge a huge fee that I cant afford. My fiance and I will be paying 1100 for a 1 bed room in a complex that has a pool gym and tennis court that we barely use. The rent use to be 945 but it goes up depending on the market. In order to move most places require first last and security which could end up being 2000. We dont have that kind of money to come up with. I like where we live but the rent is way to much for the area we live in and for a 1 bedroom. Most places we looked at online that are nice are almost the same price a couple hundred cheaper a month but we would have to pay first and last al...

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why does he flirts with me alot?


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 7:36 am

there's this guy.. he flirts with me alot and tries to touch me everytime im with him.... but there's another friend of mine to whom he does the same thing.. can anyone tell me dat what does that exactly means... i really like this guy alot.. what does that exactly means?



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My best friend is a wannabe?


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 1:21 am

I'm sorry this is a bit of a long read :3

My best friend, let's call her Z, is really pissing me off. I am known as the "nerdy, cute, gamer" girl (that's just who I am). There is a guy who has a crush on me (I kind of like him but I'm not sure), and she tries to get close to him just because she knows he likes me (she doesn't have a crush on him, I'm sure)! Every time in front of him, she acts like she is also a "nerdy, cute, gamer" type of girl when she's not at all! She always starts conversations online like, "oh sorry, i was gaming" (PLAYING GTA ONE TIME DOESN'T MAKE YOU A GAMER!!). In front of me, when I say something with words she doesn't understand or a character that's "too nerdy&q...

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Commit Suicide


Posted Friday August 30 2013, 10:13 pm

How to commit suicide the fastest, and the least painful way.

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Posted Friday August 30 2013, 7:03 pm

When I started high school I've been with this very large group of 9 people. But then the group slip into two because of some fight. I hung out with one of these sub-groups for a while but then, I became close friends with someone from the other group and well- eventually I started hanging out with her group a lot more.

Then, when I noticed that I had dumped my friends. I can back but when I did- I was already a stranger. I had no idea what and who they were talking about and no longer know anything about them.

My presence became so small among them. No one hears me when I talk and they all forget about me.
I try really hard to fit back in but today was the breaking point. I can't believe I have to talk...

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Are we making the right move by moving in together?


Posted Friday August 30 2013, 3:01 pm

On the 1st (yes in two days) I'm moving into a place with my boyfriend. I was really excited until the past couple days. I feel like maybe this isn't the right move. My problem is he's always working and when he's not working I'm usually working. It's really starting to get to me and I'm worried about money.

He has two jobs working about 50-70 hours a week and I work one job at two places and work 36-40 hours a week but I make more than him an hour.

Together we make around $3,400 a month, 43,000 a year.


Finance wise (monthly), Rent is $758, renters insurance $20 Electric around $300, High Speed Internet will be around $70, Groceries around $200, we don't want cable TV since we have Netfl...

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I heard that eatin vitamin c helps get rid of scars, how long does it take?


Posted Friday August 30 2013, 2:03 pm

I have a few spots from hormones most likely because i get very stressed out because of school and stuff like that which is normal i guess. So I have a few very small spots which I don't really mind but then I got a few really large spots and i tried o squeeze them whic i know i shouldn do but they turned into these scars that look like blemishes or scabs. Usually they heal in about a week. But I did some research and i learned that if you eat vitamin c it will speed up the healing of scars. I did research of how much vitamin c an average person needs and it is and it is about 75 mg for a woman and for a child it is slightly less. For lunch i eat a salad and an orange in school this is equivalent to 75 mg. so I eat slightly more than i need...

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should i stay with my boyfriend


Posted Friday August 30 2013, 1:10 pm

we been together for 4 years lived together for 4 months and things changed since we moved together he shows interest in me we don't make love and when we do he just lays there while i do all the work n it makes me feel like he dosent want me... he says he loves me but he dosent show it 2 me... he goes 2 work comes home takes a shower goes on the computer n forgets im in the same room, he says his tired but i feel neglected he wont give me anymore... so we fight n fight n fight... he does his own thing n i feel like his not ready 2 seatle down because its all about him, we fight over money because he spends way too much and nothing 2 show off 4 im upset because his going away for the weekend 2 a wedding n didnt even asked me 2 go with him.....

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Trouble peeing at the end


Posted Friday August 30 2013, 12:59 pm

I need thoughts & opinions on why it may Be that I'm having problems urinating. About 5 days ago everything was okay and I was having no issues using the bathtoom. Then the next day (about 4 days ago) I got up and used the bathroom in the morning. I speed and everything felt fine... until the end. When my urine started slowing down as if I was done urinating I felt like I want done though so I pushed (not harsh) but it hurt and I felt a discomfort and pressure. I'm not sure how to explain it very well. When you per you obviously know when you're done pending, but now when I have the urge to pee, I go and the urine does not burn or sting, but when I get 'done' peeing I still feel like I have more in me that should come out but it doesn't...

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soooo confused!* :(


Posted Friday August 30 2013, 12:41 pm

Hey F/14. ..... So my (ex) bf and I broke up cauze he slept at my best friend...* (girl) so we broke up and she and her bf broke up..* ( me and her bf is good friends and was a item be4) so we are single.... I really like him a lot!* he's a great person!* and we say stuff like " I love you" and so on...* I think I'm inlove with him.... But my ex asked me back!* what should I do? And how?*


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