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Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 6:20 pm
So a few months ago... i was involved with some guy. I didn't know where it was going. we knew each other from random mutual friends for years but lived in different cities and only ever talked on msn. he knows alot of people close to my circle and life... we went to the movies once as friends since he moved closer to town. and then a few months back he showed up at a party of mutual fiends where he asked me to try to set him up with a girl i knew. anyway we starting hanging out more, and she totally hated him (OMG was she right or what!). so we grew closer over that months and i decided to hang out a little more with him...
things went vague from their and we started making out over a span of a week or two... i've never made...
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I don't trust him, he doesn't trust me, but we loves each other
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 4:48 pm
hi i'm 17.i'm from Lebanon/Asia..i'm having a probleme with my boyfriend: i don't trust him and he doesn't trust me..i'm with him since 2006.we try a couple of times to breack up,but we can't becauze we love each other,he is so selfish.he wants me for him and no one else..he sheats on me onces and he told me that.he's so honest with me but i can't took this..plz help we love each other but we don't understand each other..thank u
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Starting to think I'm only interested in older men...?
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 4:22 pm
Okay well I'm 17, and never had a boyfriend before. I've had guys ask me out a few times, but I always find a reason to say no. Just so happens, all of these guys were in my school, and around my age (or a year younger). But, when I go out sometimes and meet an older guy (20+), I just feel like I'm into them more. I even had an interest in some guy's who were in their early 30's (I know, too old for me). But, as of right now, until I turn 18, I don't think my mother would allow that, so I've never acted on anything. I just find guys my age to only care about sex, partying, beer, more sex, etc. And that turns me off, even if they are a nice guy. I'm not saying guy's in there 20's don't do all of that. Believe me, I know a lot who do...
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Why am I always so nervous around guys?
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 4:09 pm
Whenever there's a cute guy around or any type of guy in general that I may be interested in, I get so nervous..and I don't know what to say to them. I don't really know what happens...when they talk to me, I respond but like I don't talk back much. Or if they make eye contact with me, I turn away. I have a few guy friends, and I'm fine with them! But it's my senior year and I would really like a date to prom with someone who I actually like...not just a normal guy friend who I hang out with all of the time. I'm somewhat shy...but I'm easy to get along with and I'm in a lot of clubs at school, etc. I'm the type of person who doesn't shut up when I'm around my friends but when I meet someone I'm shy, you know? I have decent self-estee...
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Old Fashioned in College
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 12:56 pm
I am kind of old fashioned when it comes to sex...not that I don't believe in sex before marriage but I can't just go have sex with anyone and think its no big deal, and I'm sure a large part of that is because I'm a virgin. however I'm in college and guys obviously aren't into that mindset. I have no problem doing other things, but to be honest i'm never totally into them because I feel like I don't even know the guys. Idk how do I deal with this when no guys want to wait on sex?
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why do i still feel this way after 10 months??
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 12:44 pm
I went out with a guy for about 2 years and he was my best friend. He cheated on me a couple times and was a complete jerk...but he's a nice kid. his actions are stupid and i was wrong for taking him back. right before my birthday last november he broke up with me, telling me he wanted to take a break...yet he still loved me.
a month later he got a girlfriend and i hooked up with a guy. but then later that year in around march...we became friends again and he told me that the girl was just a rebound. my ex and i were friends but then got into a huge fight . he called me names and told me he doesn't care about me one bit and to get the hell out of his life. it was horrible. ever since then he hasn't talked to me.
yester...
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Best way to get over somebody?
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 12:09 pm
I mean, I think I'm almost there, the getting over part. We broke up less than a month ago and he's already moved on to another girl, and it doesn't bother me that much cause nothing in high school lasts anyway. But I know I'm not completely over him. We have class together 5-6 times a week, and we have the same group of friends & agreed to be civil with each other and be friends as well. But to get there completely, any tips, or do I just wait? -.-
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my boyfriend is hiding something?
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 9:54 am
what do i do about this?
i am an 18 y/0 female.
sorry this is long!!
ok well to sum it up, ive been dating this guy for about 8 months. Thats a really long time for me. I also lost my virginity to him. In the past I have caught him lying, but after we broke up for a week he swears up and down he wont ever lie again. I love him with everything. I am completely attached to this boy. But last night I saw something I really wished i wouldnt have.
(dont judge me here please)
I was logged on to his facebook. the only reason i was, was to look at this girls pictures ( i couldnt look at her from mine because we wernt friends.)
Anyways while i was logged into his facebook a notification popp...
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i havnet kissed anyone...and i really wanna kiss my bf
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 3:55 am
well im dating somone and i havnt kissed tham cause i dont know how...im 14....
uhhh this is kindahh embarrasing...but i need tips on how to kiss^^ thankies!
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Reconciliation for the second time and I just can't get over it
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 12:49 am
This is going to be a long post. It has been 8 months now since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who was my first lover (but I was not his first). I did reconciled him after his birthday in May over the telephone but I did not tell him how did I felt deep down inside me. Over the telephone, I told him that I can't be his friend just yet because I need the time to heal myself. He told me he understood what I am going through and he knows what to do right now (distance himself from me). On early of July, I went to Bangkok with my group of friends for 5 days (my ex was there too). Things got awkward at first, but I did not want to affect my friends who were stucked between us and acted as though I am okay and cool with the situation between my ...
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SO DEPERSTARE
Posted Friday September 3 2010, 9:45 pm
im round 11 just started midd skool 3wk everybdy all my frands got some1 but mii i alrdy know its hard findin some1 cuz im 5'6ft i ask bout lets c 6 boys out im pretty popular not wit gurls but boys but most boys only c mii as their besties not as anythin more so how can i get some of em to like mii da only boys tat re left are the very popular boys the are hot and the VERY ugly 1's
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Getting close to crush
Posted Friday September 3 2010, 12:53 am
Right now I'm in the acquaintance zone, but I would really like to talk more and be friends with my crush. He's a sweetheart and also the brightest guy in my class. We have a paper to write and I was wondering if asking him for help on it would be a good way to get closer to him. I do not intend on pretending to be "dumb," but rather just asking for some feedback and revising. The problem is that he knows I'm smart and that writing this paper isn't going to be a huge issue for me, haha, but I'm just asking for a little assistance right? I have to email him to ask because we're not in school right now. And I definitely never see him outside of school so I can't use this as an excuse to "hang out." I'm honestly just lookin...
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he's too rough, but i like him
Posted Thursday September 2 2010, 10:23 pm
I was at a party last weekend. I hit it off with this guy, he's a senior, I'm a sophomore, he goes to a different school. I thought we really clicked. And we were back in the woods at this bonfire. We were just sitting by the fire, talking, for like three hours. People started drifting off but I didn't even notice and soon it was just me in him, I was sitting on his lap but he pulled me down so I was laying down and he was on top of me. I guess it was a little weird but I didn't mind too much at the time. I guess you could say we were dry humping, but he was really really forceful, like pushing really hard and kissing really hard and grabbing really hard and stuff. Granted, he is six foot four, 190 lbs of football/basketball/baseball toned ...
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Is this a crush or more?
Posted Thursday September 2 2010, 9:51 pm
I am 18 year old boy and there is a girl that I like. I am not going out with her but we work together. but it is
strange because I like her in a different way. Usually when I (or a boy my age) has a crush or likes a girl, it is usually sexual or based on appearance. With this girl, all I have cared about was her feelings. I realize that that's a good thing, but I don't feel that way about anybody else, not even other girls I have gone out with.
It feels like i'm in elementary school. I get really nervous around her, and I think about her the same way I used to think about my 1st grade crush. Nothing innapropriate.
I seem to care about her feelings way too much. Sometimes when she isn't smiling, I would ...
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guy advice!!
Posted Thursday September 2 2010, 6:35 pm
I'm a sophomore girl (15) and the guy I like is a junior (16). I really like him. So much. For about a week he would text me every night and we'd just talk and stuff. And he was pretty flirty. He aslo made up this cute little nickname from this inside joke we have. It seemed really sweet :\. But there's this girl in the grade below me, she's fourteen, and she's a really nice girl and stuff and the guy that I like has a little sister in that grade. His little sister was telling my friend that this girl has a thing with her brohter (so the guy I like...) and the girl says she has a thing with him too (to my friend). Well... I don't know. I mean, he haaasn't texted me since monday and he acted kind of distan at school this week so I don't real...
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<3?
Posted Thursday September 2 2010, 8:32 am
Okay, so a couple of days ago, I had a really weird dream.
I was in our classroom with my seatmate. He was sitting on a chair and then I sat next to him on the same chair. The next thing I knew, he grabbed my shoulders and pointed me towards him. I saw his lips leaning towards me, and we ended up kissing. I woke up shortly after that. (If anyone can interpret this dream, it'd be really great!:D)
Anyways, pretty much after that dream, I couldn't stop thinking about it and him. Although I know it's a dream, but for some reason I can't get it out of my head. That's when I started to wonder if I liked him. Did my subconscious mind tell me that I liked him or am I just making stuff up? Since he is my seatmate and e...
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He hurt me and I cant forget it
Posted Wednesday September 1 2010, 10:58 pm
So I'm still hurting over this guy that I dated like three months ago... we dated for seven months, he broke my heart and I'm still not like over it! I wanna move on so bad, to find a new guy. But the first guy I liked I just stopeed being interested in. I had a spree of liking all sorts of guys scattered around, intertwining into eachother for about two months. I kind of got involved with one guy, but he's bad news so I gave up. This last guy I really liked amd had been texting for a few weeks but he all of the sudden stopped texting me and I heard he has a thing with this other girl... it could not be true tho IDK. After the end of all the guys, I always find myself wanting my ex back. And it hurts so bad... I don't understand. I suddenly...
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New boy :) maybe not??
Posted Wednesday September 1 2010, 9:13 pm
Okay. So last saturday I met this guy at a party who goes to a different school. I was there with five of my friends, three male, two female. The three males are really really protoective of me. The three guys are the grade above (I'm a sophomore, they're juniors) and they're basically like my older bros. So I meet this guy right (He's ajunior, 16. I'm 15)He seemed super super nice. His friends were kind of d-bag-ish but they were also high and the guy I met (we'll call him Jake) wasn't and he said his friends smoke pot but that he usually trys to avoid it and has only done it like twice. He seemed like a super sweet guy and we walked off from the party together, just talking, for about thirty minutes. Then I went back to my friends. Two of...
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what happened to us?:(
Posted Wednesday September 1 2010, 8:12 pm
so i met this guy and he used to text me alott and then we hung out once and hooked up then we hung out a second time and hooked up again then after he kept texting me and now its been like almost a week and he still hasn't texted me:( i was the one that texted him last and he just randomly stopped texting me but i was actually starting to really like him the more i was getting to know him and now it doesn't seem like he's interested:/ i don't really want to text him again cause i don't want to seem pushy and i don't want to get turned down. i'll see him at work in a couple days. what should i do? like tests to see if he's still into me or somethingg.
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first time
Posted Wednesday September 1 2010, 6:48 pm
15/m im about to have sex for the first time this sarurday what should i do not to embarrass myself :/
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