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guy advice!!
I'm a sophomore girl (15) and the guy I like is a junior (16). I really like him. So much. For about a week he would text me every night and we'd just talk and stuff. And he was pretty flirty. He aslo made up this cute little nickname from this inside joke we have. It seemed really sweet :\. But there's this girl in the grade below me, she's fourteen, and she's a really nice girl and stuff and the guy that I like has a little sister in that grade. His little sister was telling my friend that this girl has a thing with her brohter (so the guy I like...) and the girl says she has a thing with him too (to my friend). Well... I don't know. I mean, he haaasn't texted me since monday and he acted kind of distan at school this week so I don't really know what to do... I've liked him for a long time, and he's a really good kid. And I normally don't really like the good boys so this is a big deal for me. I don't think I wanna talk to him about it cause it's not like weee were ever "talking" anyway. But I don't wanna give up!! What should I do??
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Hey there,
I would give him hints! That way you do not have to talk to him directly, but you can get your message across and you will be able to gauge his response (how he feels). Wink at him, sit near him, touch his arm/shoulder/leg (guys love touch), slip him a note in his pocket, make him cookies, or walk with him. He will get the message eventually.. and if he is still being distant, just say "Hi" whenever he is looking at you and smile. You will come across as a happy, interested person and he will want to know more about you. Do not overdo the flirting, just do something small that catches his attention for a moment.
If he smiles back, holds his eyes in yours, moves closer, touches his hair, puts his hands in his pockets, or stares at you then looks away when you look at him, he could like you. Flirt with him and see how he reacts. Once you are positive of how he feels, make the next step. Ask him if he would like to spend time with you at a location of his choice (if he chooses he will be liable to show up). He may not be willing at first, but the only way to know how he feels is to try. Flirt with him a bit. If you try, you will get places... or at least know that you tried. If you don't try, you will spend your time wondering what could have been. You can do what you put your mind to, so go for it girl! <3
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ok if you have a facebook add me noela bamala and if you have a crush on him then tell him i now it hard but his not the world hurry before his is occupied come on you can do it i had to do the same thing ok you have to conquer your feelings come on
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