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SO DEPERSTARE
im round 11 just started midd skool 3wk everybdy all my frands got some1 but mii i alrdy know its hard findin some1 cuz im 5'6ft i ask bout lets c 6 boys out im pretty popular not wit gurls but boys but most boys only c mii as their besties not as anythin more so how can i get some of em to like mii da only boys tat re left are the very popular boys the are hot and the VERY ugly 1's
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Be more mature and people will notice you.
The way you type makes you sound desperate, hopeless, and, to be quite blunt, stupid.
I know it's "cool" to chat-type but it makes you sound like a moron. Nobody can take you seriously let alone want to continue having a conversation with you online or through text. Now-a-days many relationships include typing to each other through chat programs.
Be a little more mature. Showing you're not like the rest of the morons at school gets you noticed. Some guy will say, "Wow...she's pretty...and smart! Nice!"
When you type "...em to like mii da only boys tat re left are the very popular..." it's hard to even understand what you are saying.
When people have an online persona like that it usually means it carries over into the real world. They may dress like they're a 5 year old. They might interrupt people a lot when talking and become very annoying. They might be very sloppy in how they dress or act.
The idea is this: If you can't take the time to actually type something that is understandable then you give off the impression that you don't take the time to care for yourself, let alone another human being.
People like to read words. Not half-words mixed with cute slang lingo. If you can't care enough about other people reading your information then it probably travels over into how you treat others at school.
Be more conscious about your actions. Care more about how you look to other people (and we are not talking about how you dress--we are talking about your PERSONALITY). Think about what other people like and dislike and apply that to how you act in public. Think about what people expect from a partner--do they want someone immature and who might break their heart at any moment or somebody who can handle serious discussions that a relationship involves?
Falling in love, getting a boyfriend, or dating around doesn't have anything to do with having pretty or ugly features. It's about how you carry yourself. It's about how you ACT. It's about your maturity level.
Just think about yourself and other people. Make some changes. Grow up a little. In time, some boy will notice you and you'll find your match.
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You just started middle school? Chill out honey!! Not a lot of people have serious relationships in middle school. It's not something to worry about yet, trust me. The relationships your friends are in are most likely not gonna last too long. That sounds harsh, but it's true. This is the year when you should be trying to make friends, and maybe if you really like a guy, (by the way, when I say "like", I don't mean "think is hot") you can try having a boyfriend. But don't get to desperate now. Youre still pretty young.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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