Member Since: September 3, 2010
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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Don't jump to conclusions.
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So last night I was at a party and I got really drunk and I ended up making out with a couple people including these two girls. Everyone was drunk and the only reason I made out with the girls was because these guys were egging us on. I'm not a prude and this wasn't like the first time but I just feel really awkward about it now. I'm kind of dreading seeing them in school and stuff. Idk I guess I'm just looking for words of advice to get through this in the least awkward way possible.
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Well you're obviously in highschool, and you obviously drank a lot.
smart.
Well there's not much to do about it now, you made a huge mistake. The best thing to do is laugh it off. Tell people that you're not lez, by all means, but say it like it's no big deal. There are a lot of other stupid things people do in highschool. They'll get over it.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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How do you know whether i got my period or not? How do you know when you've got it? (link)
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Well how much blood was it? If it was a ton, then yeah it's probably your first period. Yaaay!
If it's a little bit, you could just be spotting. This happened to me a few weeks before I got my first period.
Have fun!!
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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My first day of school is on tuesday. I want people to see how i have changed. I want to seem more confident and also mysterious. What can i do to convey that and what should i say in conversations? (link)
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If you wanna show how you've changed, you should really just be yourself. Be comfortable and confident, and let everyone see the new you. Don't try that hard, just go with it :]
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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how do you clean your room fast and fun? (link)
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Well first off, spend some free time reeally organizing your room and finding a place for everything. It sucks, but it'll help in the long run, trust me. And you don't have to give up your Facebook time to do it. Take your time cleaning your room when you have nothing better to do. If your brother/sister/ is on the computer or the cable guy is "fixing" your tv, go
organize your shtuff :]
Heres why.
Say you're watching Greys Anatomy, and Grey is juuust about to save some hot guy and the hot guy starts puking blood everywhere, your mom walks in and starts screaming at you to clean your room. You start to think of a super duper clever excuse when BAM!! You remember that weird girl online named Alex gave you a good idea for keepin that room clean. You fly like a ninja to your room and take a ton of stuff off the floor at once and put the stuff away quickly, running across the room to throw (please don't actually throw stuff) your crap into the places you designated for everything earlier. You have just enough time to run downstairs and see the hot guy die on the floor in a puddle of blood (yaaaay). Your mom goes to check to see if everything isn't stuffed under the bed and she screams cuz she saw that it's actually clean. As she was going to check on your room, an evil guy snuck in the back door to kiil your mom cuz she didn't go to the PTA meeting last night. But your mom screamed so loud from how your room was so clean that the evil guys ear drums exploded so he ran away screaming.
You could possibly save your mom.
And watch a hot guy die. That parts sad.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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ok so my sister just got dumped by her boyfriend and she is having a party tomorrow night. i wanna burn a cd for her to have at the party and i want it to be a really fun party cd to let her forget about him! does anyone have any suggestions maybe like "patron tequila" or "a toast to men" that kind of just says, who needs him! lets have a fun night!
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I think a cute one would be that song "Bad Day". Or even "Move Along". Sometimes songs that you've heard a lot will make you laugh when you realize you have a connection to them.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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I've got a couple of friends. But I'm not super close to them. They have friends that are closer to them than I am so I don't really know all the news things happening to them and I'll find out a couple of days later. I mean, we're close, but not AT close.
I have a best friend and I tell her 99% everything! Sometimes, I wish I had another best friend or maybe two more so that if there's a rough situation I'm in and I couldn't tell my best friend, at least I'll have someone else to talk to. Posting them online to anonymous people is also okay, I guess, but I'm not comfortable with that.
Am I bad for even hoping for another friend? Not a REPLACEDMNT, but more than one? Or should I be happy with what I have? I mean, I think my best friend talks to some other people about things more than she does with me about her troubles :( (link)
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Well, in my opinion, one best friend is enough. Maybe you can bring your other friends closer, but I think that it's safer to have one person to share your deepest feelings with.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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OK i need any idea's i'm usually good at this but i have writer's block so i'm stuck.
This isn't for school or anything, I got asked this on a site, so in order to get aproved i have to complete a writing proment about the sun in it's perspective. I have no idea where this goes so i put it in the random weridos.
I just need an idea that's all I can take it from there after. Please and ty (link)
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I would say how much grief I've been getting lately from Earth and how annoying humans are. Some of them like it cold, some of them like it hot. I can't please everyone, I'm only one star! And I feel so used!! Those old ancient humans used to treat me like a god, but now they just steal my energy. Without a simple thank you! And people use SUNSCREEN. Well maybe I'll use peoplescreen. See how they like it.
Haha that was kinda fun. It might be a little too ranty for ya but that's just me.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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um me and my bf were having sex for the first time with each other and well he forgot his condom will this get me pregnate and can i use extra birth control to prevent this pregancy? (link)
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Sorry. It is possible that you got pregnant. If he filmed and you had no birth control or a condom...well that was a serious mistake. If it's been less than 24 hours, birth control could help, but if you want to be sure, take a test from a doctor or buy a test from a pharmacy.
I hope this shows you that not having protected sex is a risk. I have a feeling you didn't do this on purpose, but you should still try to be a little more careful nest time.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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how do girls get fingered standing and in a car iwant to know (link)
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Can you reword that a little more clearly?
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Back in March I dyed my hair red for some reason and then a couple months later I dyed it back to brown but there's still the red tint. Would I be able to dye my hair black without it turning orange or something? Because I wanted to dye it black and add blonde peek a boo highlights but I'll do the highlights with bleach. Thanks. (link)
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I'm not an expert, but I'm pretty sure you could make any hair color work by getting it professionally colored at a salon. They know what they're doing.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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im round 11 just started midd skool 3wk everybdy all my frands got some1 but mii i alrdy know its hard findin some1 cuz im 5'6ft i ask bout lets c 6 boys out im pretty popular not wit gurls but boys but most boys only c mii as their besties not as anythin more so how can i get some of em to like mii da only boys tat re left are the very popular boys the are hot and the VERY ugly 1's (link)
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You just started middle school? Chill out honey!! Not a lot of people have serious relationships in middle school. It's not something to worry about yet, trust me. The relationships your friends are in are most likely not gonna last too long. That sounds harsh, but it's true. This is the year when you should be trying to make friends, and maybe if you really like a guy, (by the way, when I say "like", I don't mean "think is hot") you can try having a boyfriend. But don't get to desperate now. Youre still pretty young.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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ive been begging my parents for years to let me see a counsler but they say ill be fine its gotten to the point where im scared of myslf and i dont wanna live ths way but i dont know what to do any suggestions???
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If you can't talk to a counselor because your parents say you don't need to, that's fine. But if you want to see a counselor for your own well being, you can always talk to your guidance counselor. They can do more than just help you with stresses at school. They are there to talk about anything. Plus, your parents don't have to know if you don't want them to. You can go during school. Or you can talk to a friend about whatever is bothering you.
I'm a freshman too. It's hard being in a new school with new people and so many older, beautiful girls who seem so much better than you. I know your parents can't understand the stress you go through in school or whatever else bothers you, because your feelings about things don't always match what they think.
Just remember that nothing lasts forever. You'll get through the hardships in your life. It'll pass. Just take a deep breath and plunge through this mess of teenage years and you'll do just fine.
I tried to help. Sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for.
Best wishes!
~Alex~ :]
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