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Old Fashioned in College
I am kind of old fashioned when it comes to sex...not that I don't believe in sex before marriage but I can't just go have sex with anyone and think its no big deal, and I'm sure a large part of that is because I'm a virgin. however I'm in college and guys obviously aren't into that mindset. I have no problem doing other things, but to be honest i'm never totally into them because I feel like I don't even know the guys. Idk how do I deal with this when no guys want to wait on sex?
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Just be who you are. I'm in the same position as you. Just like the person below me said, people view sex as a way of getting to know eachother these days. Which is totally wrong. What happend to getting to know a girl by learning her likes/dislikes, etc. What happend to courting a girl for a while until she was ready? You're in control of your own body! YOU only do what makes YOU comfortable. If you don't want to do something, then don't. Some guy's may not want to be with you because your not easy, and some will respect you. There are really good guys out there who respect women who don't just have sex with random guy's. It's a good quality, don't lose it!!! Believe me, most of those girls will regret it in the future when no guy wants to marry them because they've been around to everyone. Guy's grow out of it in mid 20's to early 30's (the normal one's at least..).
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It is always OK not to have sex. Nowadays, it seems, people regard sex as a way to get to know people, as opposed to getting to know someone really well before having sex with them. I think it cheapens the sex, and the people involved.
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