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why do i still feel this way after 10 months??
I went out with a guy for about 2 years and he was my best friend. He cheated on me a couple times and was a complete jerk...but he's a nice kid. his actions are stupid and i was wrong for taking him back. right before my birthday last november he broke up with me, telling me he wanted to take a break...yet he still loved me.
a month later he got a girlfriend and i hooked up with a guy. but then later that year in around march...we became friends again and he told me that the girl was just a rebound. my ex and i were friends but then got into a huge fight . he called me names and told me he doesn't care about me one bit and to get the hell out of his life. it was horrible. ever since then he hasn't talked to me.
yesterday was the first day of school and he seemed different. he called me by my nickname to his friends, held the door for me and little things..yet never talked directly to me. i'm so confused..and it really bothers me that i still think about him after 10 months. all my friends have boyfriends and are so occupied with them that i can never talk to them about this ..and when we do get together they talk about their boyfriends/text their boyfriends. i have no one to talk about this stuff. please help.
why does my ex choose to be friendly..yet not talk to me ...
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he probably doesn't want his friends to notice any difference or he is sorry for what he said and wants to show you he's not mad while still showing you he doesn't want to be involved more than what he is doing. i know about friends and their boyfriends. its hard having someone be so happy while you are breaking down. tell them you are happy for them but really need to talk about this problem, if they're true friends they will see your anguish and want to help you figure this guy out. if all else fails try talking to him online or text him.
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the problem this days is girls not knowing their wealth! girl sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on. there are so many guys who want to treat you better and one day you will be surprised when one of the guys is like , i really did like you but, you were always hooked onto your ex. guys treat us the way we treat ourselves. let go , i always want my readers to be happy. moving on is not so easy but, at least all the stress will be off your shoulders. be grateful for those two years , awesome and loving but , you have to believe your best days are ahead of you.
join a sport or a different organisation in school, there will always be people to talk to. just give them a chance to let them see you as a beautiful , bright lady! give yourself a fighting chance.
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