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first time
15/m im about to have sex for the first time this sarurday what should i do not to embarrass myself :/
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Dear "first time"
Honestly... I think some of the people answering this aren't being very logical. I mean, you can stay a virgin your entire life, and then on the night of your honeymoon, when you're twenty three, and you're madly in love with you new wife, are you going to be nervous?? Yes. No matter what age, you're gonna be nervous your first time. Just take a deep breath, and remember she's probably just as nervous as you. MAKE SURE you use proper birth control methods. And make sure she's the right one to lose your v card to. You don't want to do this before you're ready, trust me.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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It can be hard to show everything your insecure about to someone else. Make sure you take precautions and let her do most of the talking, but the other guy sounds right. Dosen't seem like your quite ready enough make sure you are first.
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It sounds like you're not too sure about losing your virginity. If you're worried about embarrassing yourself or your performance, I personally do not think that you are mentally ready. You'll know when you're ready when you very much trust your partner and have no worries or second thoughts about it. When I lost mine, I was so sure. I was shy and a little nervous, but that's natural, especially if you are self-conscious.
But if you think you're ready, my best advice is for you to not plan anything you're doing besides bringing the condom. Don't plan out your actions, chances are you'll probably freeze and think too much. Just go with the flow, you'll ease yourself into it.
- Noelle<3
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Don't do it. That's the only way I can think of that you won't risk embarassing yourself.
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You probably shouldn't have asked this because all of the answers are going to be "don't you think you're a little to young to be having sex?" or "you should wait until your older"
Both of these statements I do agree with, you probably should wait until you're mentally mature enough to handle this and to know that whom you are doing this with is really "the one". But I know that won't stop you if you really have your mind set on doing this.
I would say, just go with the flow, it will all come natural. If you do something goofy or something that your partner won't like, heck, you're in love. You'll be forgiven. Just calm down. If you're worried about it and keep thinking about it, odds are you'll be a nervous wreck and everything will go wrong. So, just calm down and don't over think it.
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