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Secrets
So a few months ago... i was involved with some guy. I didn't know where it was going. we knew each other from random mutual friends for years but lived in different cities and only ever talked on msn. he knows alot of people close to my circle and life... we went to the movies once as friends since he moved closer to town. and then a few months back he showed up at a party of mutual fiends where he asked me to try to set him up with a girl i knew. anyway we starting hanging out more, and she totally hated him (OMG was she right or what!). so we grew closer over that months and i decided to hang out a little more with him...
things went vague from their and we started making out over a span of a week or two... i've never made out before so it was kind of a fun thing... thing is i want to keep it a secret (crazy town) but he has a huge mouth and probably told his friend. one day i don't recall exactly what i said but he answered that what was going on was basically a fling and i was a cheap means to a need so to speak (not in these words per se) so i asked what that's supposed to mean and i guess it freaked him out so we stopped hanging out (he blocked me from msn, stopped texting and stuff) and frankly i didn't bother going after him... which to be honest is fine by me since i knew from the beginning i was in it for some fun... the problem is he's acting like a child and people will notice the guy that ducks under the tables if i walk into a room, let alone hear the gossip spread by his big mouth... i am totally not a clingger but he's acting like a child and he's embarrassing me... i won't have the opportunity to talk to him and set him straight... though i did tell him right from the gecko that what ever happens happens as long as he sets me straight and man's up to the situation and we could get out of it as friends... as usual he pulled a typical guy move on me... and now i am freaking out about what he'll say. he's told his friends and they yap... i really don't want this spreading around especially that my parents would freak about this since we come from two different cultures (believe me my family does not mix well with his) .... i am really mad at his dumb behaviour and would really appreciate some advice on how to get maximum damage control and perhaps as a bonus maybe, strike back and set him in place...
thanks in advance
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this is hard if you have no way of talking to him about it. isn't it like a guy to not man up to the situation and talk about it before spreading things that aren't true? so try telling people who you talk to the real situation. let them know that he is being childish and that you aren't interested in being in a relationship with someone so immature.
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Wow , all I have to say is , let him go , he is a really rude guy , who needs to be taught a lesson , do not try to get him back it will just get worse and you will end up being the same as him. Let it go and move on. There is no need for you to get into this while he is doing the immature way , I am sure you do not want to be that child either. My advice to you is , do not get worked up about it , and your real friends will believe you not him , just do not worry about it. Your are too good for him. There are lot's of guy's out there , do not let him destroy it for you.
Good luck girl :)
- You are a great girl , do not let a typical guy ruin it for you.
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