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I don't trust him, he doesn't trust me, but we loves each other
hi i'm 17.i'm from Lebanon/Asia..i'm having a probleme with my boyfriend: i don't trust him and he doesn't trust me..i'm with him since 2006.we try a couple of times to breack up,but we can't becauze we love each other,he is so selfish.he wants me for him and no one else..he sheats on me onces and he told me that.he's so honest with me but i can't took this..plz help we love each other but we don't understand each other..thank u
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Sounds like you should talk to him about this! Ask him why he doesn't trust you! You have every right now to trust him! He cheated but you didn't so it makes no sense. If he cheated clearly he's not good enough for you and you just break up and get over him. That's what I'd try to do, life would be much easier. :3 But talk to him first before you make any drastic decisions. Hope this helps!
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First of all a relationship is based on trust if you have no trust you don't have a relationship .Here's. The reason let's say your boyfriend constantly is doing things behide your back .you keep wondering what is he doing now always looking behide your back becase he's not faithful .you will always have this thought somewhere in the back of your head .and what kind of relationship is that .not one I would want to be in .Second is comunication if you don't know what he wants or what you want then that can be a problem also sure your wants and his wants maybe a little different maybe there the same but you have to sit down and talk and be serious with your needs and listen to his needs as well and decide where your future is together becase its fulish to play games when there is no trust you are either serious with a long relationship or your not nothing in between and third he doesn't own you not untill you are maried but even then its not in full .so back to where we first started trust is everything .No trust No relationship its that simple .I hope things work out and good luck
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Hi there,
This is a situation where couples counseling would be a great idea.
Without trust you have nothing. If he has cheated on you, then trust will be hard to have. You said he is selfish because he wants you all to himself? Does that mean you cheated on him also? If not, then why doesn't he trust you?
Please talk to a counselor about this and maybe you two can work it out.
One last thing: Love isn't what you say, and it isn't what you FEEL... it is what you DO that shows if the love is real or fake.
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