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what happened to us?:(
so i met this guy and he used to text me alott and then we hung out once and hooked up then we hung out a second time and hooked up again then after he kept texting me and now its been like almost a week and he still hasn't texted me:( i was the one that texted him last and he just randomly stopped texting me but i was actually starting to really like him the more i was getting to know him and now it doesn't seem like he's interested:/ i don't really want to text him again cause i don't want to seem pushy and i don't want to get turned down. i'll see him at work in a couple days. what should i do? like tests to see if he's still into me or somethingg.
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Well , I am really sorry to say , but this guy wanted action from you. See it is a trap , they drag you into liking them , and when they get you to like them , they act even sweeter , and when they act even sweeter , then they try to get physical with you , which most girls fall for , which you probabaly did , and so that is just it. I am really sorry to say to be honest , but this guy is not worth it. My advice to you is please do not fall for these guys , be caucious with them , and be more hard to get that way , you will see if they are really into you. He got what he wanted , and that's that , he is not looking for anything more , if he really wanted to , he would have texted you by now , or he might be waiting for your move , but just give it a rest , and to not be pushy , just lay low. If you will see him at work in a couple of days , I will say you should give a bit of time , and see if he notices you or says anything , watch his reactions.
Good luck girl : )
- Do not let this guy bring you down or fool you!
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First what seems like forever for a woman or girl is not that long for a guy. Almost a week is a sign that he doesn't have a driving desire to text you.
There could be a few reasons for this.
If you "hookup" or make out each time you meet then the relationship becomes about making out. If he is not interested in hooking up or on the "hookup" high = no drive. If he is hooking up with someone else = no drive.
He will text you again when he feels like hooking up.
If you want to be more to him. Then start having other kind of fun with him
Don't text him and do you own thing. Ironically when women are busy with their own life men find them. (they like the independent passion)
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This happens to most girls, I'm sorry to say. Guys take advantage of us. It's never our faults, we're just vulnerable to how sweet and cute they seem at first. What it seems like here is that he got his fix and now he's not interested in you anymore. If he hasn't returned your texts, it's a sign that he wants to stop relations with you. I would suggest you having a small conversation with him at work. If he isn't as flirty and the same as usual, you'll know that he's done with you.
Keep your head up. I'm sure you're a beautiful girl. This is just a life lesson. Be careful of who you fall for, I cannot stress that enough. Good luck.
- Noelle<3
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You had sex with him. He stopped contacting you. That IS the test. He's not into you. He got what he wanted - reason #463 why hook ups never lead to a steady boyfriend. The man who respects your body enough to wait for it is the man who will text or call you every day because he just can't wait to see you again.
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