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how do i know if he's a player?
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 8:38 pm
I just started talking to this guy that I work with (at a fast food restaurant). We have been texting every day all day for about a week. We have talked about hanging out in person outside of work and I don't know what to expect because...This guy and I are definitely flirty, but I literally just got out of a 1-year relationship and I honestly don't know how to tell if this guy is a player and is talking to other girls or if he genuinely likes me. What are the signs -- how do I know if this is just how he is with all girls or if he has a thing for ME only?
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Mutual attraction, now what?
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 8:03 pm
Okay here's the deal: I like this guy in my class and am almost 100% certain that he likes me as well. We don't see eachother outside of school and we briefly speak while in school. Sometimes we talk in the class we have together. I was really surprised when he invited me to his birthday party (I didn't think he considered us "close"). And ever since the invite it's been all smiles and stares in class. I'm talking serious eye contact!
But he's shy in the sense that he won't directly tell me his feelings. Maybe he's doubtful of my feelings and thinks I think we're just friends. Where do I go from here? I don't actually want to tell him that I like him or tell his friends to tell him because I've done that before and...
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is he playing head games or is he confused.
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 7:05 pm
Im a 37 yr old female whose ex boyfriend recently asked me to start calling him after I initiated a call to him I asked him if he was seeing anyone and he said no. I started leaving messages and he never returned them so on one of the rare instances we connected I asked steve why he had not returned my calls and he said that he was very busy with alot going on i was surprised since he told me to call him, he told me i had a special place in his heart and that I made him laugh, after that phone call he txt messaged me after I had left a voice mail message and he asked me not to call him so often, I left one more message after that and a girl answered and told me steve was busy, i hung up the phone and decided I was not going to call this man...
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Should I stick with my first boyfriend or hope for someone better?
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 4:52 pm
My boyfriend is a great guy. He's cute, pre-med, and my best friend in the whole world. We're 23 and talking marriage. We've been together 5 years, since college, and we are the only ones who know each other as the 18 year old kids we were when we met, and the adults we've turned into. We're each other's "first" for everything and I do love him and he loves me. He's my first and only boyfriend. BUT-- I don't feel passionately in love with him and little things about him frustrate me. I wonder if we have all the signs to end up like a typical married couple who don't talk or have sex because we don't have intense passion now, when we're 23. We have great sex and we have fun when we're together but I get annoyed by little things and...
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is he lying??
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 1:21 pm
how do you tell if a guy is a virgin or not
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Trouble in marriage-land
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 12:58 pm
My wife and I have had 2 miscarriages in the past 18 months. She informed me yesterday that she does not ever want to have sex again and would rather be partners than lovers. we have had sex 3 times since the last miscarriage, which was well over 3 months ago. For some reason neither of us feel that spark that we used to. What should I do?
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boyfriend left me for another girl
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 11:26 am
17/f
boyfriend left me for another girl, one month before our one year. i can't eat, i can't sleep. i know in time i'll be better but i sincerly do love him with every ounce in my heart. so my head tells me to fucking never talk to his ass again, but my heart screams his name every time it beats in my chest. I know i'm only 17, before him i had another boyfriend for 3 years. Yes i'm young, but i know that i want a loving boyfriend, because my moms marriage is horrible hes abussive and not the man she married. How do i move on? How do i possibly breathe and not think about him..
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i feel used and messed with
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 1:43 am
ok i dont know what to do anymore. my ex bf of 2 years dumped me last year and it took alot of getting used to like no more kisses no more hugs i had to get used to living the single life and it was hard. this boy i went out with last year after him i only went out with him for 2 weeks. then he dumped me. after like 2 months we talked again. then i didnt actually until like 5 months later. and he kissed me. then waked right back out of my life again. i was mad for like a few days. then after that i still talked to him and then i seen him again like 3 months later i seen him one day he randomly said he wanted to see me. so i said ok and i seen him. its like everytime i see him we do things. ater that he said he wanted me to be his gf and lik...
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how to tell him
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 1:32 am
Want to tell this guy how he makes me feel but don't know how to.he has been hurt before
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newly single.. whats so good about it?
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 10:35 pm
I've been in relationships since late 2008. It being mid 2010, I'm EXTREMELY used to having a boyfriend all the time. I've been single for about a month now, and I'm over the ex and everything, I just miss having soemone there. I'm a junior in high school and I know a relationship especially now is just asking for disaster, but I love having a boyfriend... it keeps me happy and balanced. So, I'm trying to stay away from boys because of the constant heartbreak. What are some GREAT advantages of being single? I'm NOT used to this at all and I miss the idea of a boyfriend so I just need to be more confident about it. Thanks :)
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Newlyweds and fighting all the time
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 5:13 pm
okay going to brief and blunt. Just got married in 2010 and I have 3 kids my newly husband also has 3 kids, It seems like we are always fighting over my kids and his kids I hate the fact it comes down to his and mine. I am always saying it shouldnt be that way. His kids call me mom but my kids dont call him dad, they have a dad close by, although his kids are not that blessed their mother left them 4 yrs ago and has no contact with them. I was gonna leave my husband before we got married but when I told him I was planning on leaving he changed his ways towards me. I wanted love and attention when all kids went to bed he wanted his tv and video games. For awhile he seemed different but now its like he went back to the same person. I love thi...
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What is happening to me...?
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 3:41 pm
16/f
Lately,no matter what I do goes wrong.I can't study,I've lost most of my friends,my boyfriend and I are going through a HUGE crisis and I think I may lose him...I've lost all of my positivity and now I see life as all dark and no light.I am aware this might be because of puberty.But I hate that I can't truly laugh and be happy,I can't get rid of my negativity...Why is this happening to me and what should I do to stop this?It's tearing me up inside...
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i am going crazy.
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 10:22 am
okay, so me and my boyfriend were seeing eachother for a month and a half-two months and then have been offically dating for a little over two months now. well, we spent alot of time together over these past four months and grew extermely close to eachother and about a week ago, we had sex. my first time, not his. after when i went home, he texted me asking if i was okay and how i felt about it and that he felt it was really right and is "super about me all day", which i thought was really sweet to say.
but then after that, i stayed over for like, four days and the first couple were fine but then he started seeming a little distant. he didn't greet me his usual good morning or give me a kiss, didn't hold my ...
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Should I wait?
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 9:00 am
Ok me and my boyfriend broke up. I love him a lot, and he says he loves me. Without going into it too much, we sometimes argued about things we shouldn't, because they didn't really matter. I doubted the relationship and it upset him, and he broke up with me. A week earlier he was telling everyone how happy he was with me.
I asked if we could try again with the relationship and he said he wanted to think about it. We spoke on and off during the week, but by the end of it he stuck with the decision to end it. After speaking to him about it, he said he wasn't sure now. He said he loves me and wants me, but he doesn't want me to doubt again.
I have given him more time to think on it as he requested, but am I wast...
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To me love is a must
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 3:16 am
I'm a fifteen year old girl who's had emotional issues and low self esteem issues since I was a very little girl.i'm really hurt because I think that all most guys in high school Want to do is take advantage of girls and never treat them good like a girl friend.I've always felt alone for some reason which always made me strive to try to "fall in love".it doesn't work though because I always end up getting hurt.I've been in relationships before but I've never had a boy friend.it's usually either I'm the girl on the side or just a girl that is taken advantage of.so I'm constantly in search of someone who will fall in love with me but its become a very unhealthy habbit now.it's like whenever I see a guy that I really like (or "...
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Edgy!!!! Please help asap
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 2:27 am
I had sex with a friend last Thursday. He wore a condom
Then of course it broke, he told me he came a little. Then my two friends rushed me to walgreens to get plan b. Am I safe? Will I start my period? I'm paranoid as hell. I can't stop thinking about it and friends told me they took it and had their period. That's comforting n all but I'm scared and idk what to do!!!
I took it right away the plan b. I won't get preg... Right
Please help asap!!!!
Thx
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I lied to my boyfriend about my age and I'm underage and he's not
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 1:23 am
My bf is just turned 24 and I really REALLY like him a whole lot, hes so funny. The thing is I told him I had just turned 18 yrs old. That isn't the truth tho. I'm really almost 15. I guess you could say I developed fast and am mature for my age? haha Anyways, he totally believes I'm 18 and I kind of feel bad because my bff just said it's illegal to date when he's so old and he can go to prison for it. He hasnt ever been to jail. idk what do I do? My mom don't know I'm dating even tho.
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my boyfriend wants a threesome and i don't
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 1:00 am
My boyfriend is bisexual and I thought it was really cool for awhile because we could talk about boys together and not feel weird. The past couple of time we've had sex he's said stuff that leads me to think he wants to really have sex with another guy. Today I confronted him because, to be honest, I'm tired of this and it's getting weird in the bedroom. He said he has these fantasies and really wants to have a 3 some with another guy and me. Now, I have hard about guys wanting 3somes with another girl but not with another guy. I don't know how to handle this now because it makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to do that. That's weird and NOT sexy. I told him I need time to think about this but I think he thinks I mean like to think about i...
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boyfriends mom
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 12:45 am
My boyfriend and I are 18 years old, and my boyfriend has a younger brother who is 16 and also has a girlfriend well we both talk to their mom but its like their mom likes his brothers girlfriend more cause she knows spanish and i dont (and im mexican too). What do i do? When we're all together they are all laughing and talking and i just sit there because i have no idea what their talking about.. ive tried telling my boyfriend how i feel and he just doesnt understand how i feel he just says i feel left out because i never talk but how can i when i dont know what their saying.. It just feels like his mom likes her more than me. What do i do??
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should i stay with my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 10:47 pm
I think that I need some advice on whether or not I should stay with my boyfriend. I have been dating him for about a year and two months. (We broke up briefly in the beginning of August, but we decided to get back together, and are still together as of now. ) I'm very confused about my feelings for him. He is a really great guy and there are qualities about him that I don't see in anyone else that I know. That is part of the reason that I have stayed with him for so long; I don't know anyone else that I believe will treat me like he does, or be there for me like he is. He definitely gets me. He's funny, affectionate, and he is very loyal and kind. He gets along with my family and friends, which is very important to me. We both share a lot ...
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