Question Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 11:26 am
17/f
boyfriend left me for another girl, one month before our one year. i can't eat, i can't sleep. i know in time i'll be better but i sincerly do love him with every ounce in my heart. so my head tells me to fucking never talk to his ass again, but my heart screams his name every time it beats in my chest. I know i'm only 17, before him i had another boyfriend for 3 years. Yes i'm young, but i know that i want a loving boyfriend, because my moms marriage is horrible hes abussive and not the man she married. How do i move on? How do i possibly breathe and not think about him..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AdviceMistress answered Saturday September 18 2010, 10:44 pm: It hurts to get your heartbroken I understand but you're young and there are so many guys out there. It hurts when you can't have a guy that you want. I've been in love with this kid I dated and he's awesome I love him but he's just not good for me. So I broke up with him...apart of me thinks I made a mistake the other part of me knows that it was the right decision and that I'm going to find a man who cares about me and is going to treat me right. I have never given my hope up on love NEVER. I grieved and some days for me are better than others. I sing, I write, I dance, I walk, or I even play basketball. Motivate yourself get out there and hang out with your friends. Don't sit around and cry...you can cry its just don't sit at home all day long that doesn't help! You're guy is out there...you just have to keep looking! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
RavenRun answered Thursday September 16 2010, 7:51 pm: I always handle my break ups with having one good night to cry, and then letting go. The best way to not think of something is to stay busy. Hang out with your friends, learn something new, get involved with your school, or get a job just do something to make you not think of him. I know this sounds bad, but sometimes even rebounds work. Just live by this quote for right now: "Never regret something you once smiled about." [ RavenRun's advice column | Ask RavenRun A Question ]
sml111992 answered Thursday September 16 2010, 5:51 pm: this is always hard time is what heals the heart you know hes not worth your time now but you really want what you thought or did have. so im letting you know if you cry now and then for a couple months its okay and hanging out with friends and having fun and talking to cute guys is always a big help in forgetting that guy he wasnt mean to be if he finds out that he missed out on a great thing reject him because the way you feel now you wnt him to feel too. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
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