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I recently got out of a relationship just to find out that im pregnant and he has a girlfriend already. For some reason i cant stop txting him and i know that i need to b/c he was a dog and is not good enough for me! he has treated me 100 times worse since he found out about the baby. i just dont know how to move on! I need some advice! (link)
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First off, taking care of the baby needs to be your first priority, you've basically got three options: adoption, keeping it, or abortion.. But I don't advise putting him in your decision. Do what you think is best. You need to get him out of your life completely. He seems like nothing but trouble to me. Best wishes!
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My dad smokes and always did when I was growing up. My parents are getting a divorce and he moved out last week. Ever since he moved out I feel weird cravings for the smell of the smoke. Like, I REALLY want to smell it and I feel kind of irritated that it's hard to find a smoker around without it being obvious I want to smell the smoke. When I went out shopping I kind of lingered around these people smoking outside so I could breathe it in and I felt a little better for awhile. Do you think second hand smoke is addictive or do I just miss the smell or something? It's really weird. (link)
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I think you link the smoke to your father and you just miss him.
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My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. He seemed like he regretted it afterwards, he made the decision quite abruptly and didn't actually think it through.
We spoke here and there a while afterwards but then I cut contact. He still text me now and then saying he still loved me, missed me etc. I asked him whether that meant he wanted to get back together and he said he wasn't sure.
I haven't spoken to him for over a month, but I do check his facebook (bad I know) and he puts lyrics to our favourite songs all of the time. I know he isn't seeing anyone else and he always puts things like I wanna make you mine..or lyrics to songs we used to sing to eachother. Does this just mean he misses me? (link)
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My assumption is yes, but I wouldn't take him back so soon.. He needs to know that rash decisions cause rash consequences.. If he wants you back, he needs to confront you not leave little hints on his Facebook. He's the one that decided he didn't want to be with you anymore. Keep your options open, something better might come along. (:
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hi, i have a bf who while we were broken up met this girl, he first lied about how he met her (i saw her on her contacts and he said she was an old friend ) then weeks later when we were kinda getting back together he told me the truth (supposely) he said that he met her at a train station when he had no money for the ticket and she offered nicely to pay so they chatter a little she "found him" on facebook and added him there, on blackberry messenger and on skype (which is rare cause he doesnt have any of this information on his profile so theres no possible way that she would do this without him giving the number and usernames since on facebook he doesnt even has a picture of himself and he has a very common name ) so i was thinking maybe HE added her and they exchanged numbers which is more liley what happened since tbh he is not a skype user either other than talking to me thats all he uses it for so its strange someone added him on there ...anyway ..he said he has stopped talking to her (apparently deleted her from facebook which i have no way to prove cause he has his friends hidden and IM NOT even one his friends there anymore )i deleted him from facebook cause he was extremly jealous i figured that would be better so i cannot add him back and if i did i wouldnt see much cause no one can post on his wall he only gets messages by inbox and his friend list is hidden..
he said he had deleted her off blackberry messenger and skype, BUT the girl keeps sending messages like
"i hope you're ok i dont know why you stopped contacting me i dont know why that day really affected me " (which im wondering ,,,did they go out ?? did they slept together/kissed or whatever more than just chatting at the train station?) he said nothing more happened than they speaking on facebook for like 2 days after meeting then when she started saying she liked his smile etc and flirting he stopped contacting her
shes been callling him NONSTOP and texting him, messages on facebook and everywhere else he wont take her calls or reply to his messages but shes still sending messages like
one day he shared his skype screen and a message from her came up saying "i hope you had fun today :)" (not even a hello or whatever...he said it was kinda like "i hope you have a good day " but to me sounded like as if they were out together and shes saying like i hope you had fun after them hanging out ) he denies it but its all very suspiscious like
"i hope you're ok etc etc i dont understand why u stopped talking to me "
1- why would a girl keep messaging a guy who she only spoke for like 3 days
2-why would she be insisting so much after he hasnt taken her calls? (seriously why cant she think like maybe he doesnt wanna talk to me or whatever)
ANYWAY im so tired of it and i cannot move on cause i wanna be with him but i dont feel safe having her trying to contact him so desperatley, i know he thought she was hot etc so i dont want him getting tempted so ive added her and im thinking about asking her NICELY to stop emssaging him but i want it to look in a way so she wont message him saying like your gf contacted me etc or something, asking him to tell her to stop trying to comunicate isnt an option he says just to drop the issue and move on and i cant so WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS? i was planning on telling her something like (not to offend her of course cause this is as much his fault not only hers she might not even know he has a gf )
hello im sorry that ive added you i really havent ever done this and i dont wanna come out rude or anything, but i'd like you to be honest with me about something..
can you tell me what really happened between you and (bf's name without saying my boyfriend )? because i can't understand why you would be insisting so much in contacting him..
if she doesn't wanna tell me then i don't know what would i do
then just say something like : i really don't wanna be rude or anything cause more likely you didn't knew he had something going on so im gonna just ask you in the nicest way as possible if you could stop trying to contact him?
(then hopefully she won't answer agressively or deffensive ...) I KNOW you probably will say just trust him but tthis is not as easy as that since i wont rest my mind until i really know what happened and i REALLY DIDNT wanted to ask her to stop messaging him but shes been calling almost every day for like a month and texting and he hasnt taken her calls
just please tell me your opinion and im sorry this is way too long (link)
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I understand completely why you do not trust your 'boyfriend', something is fishy if he lied to you about her in the first place. It would be stupid of you to just 'drop the situation', because something had to of happen.. I mean, like you said why would she have all his information, and why the hell would she keep contacting him? I think you trying to get to the bottom of the situation would be pointless. To me, dropping him would be your best option whether you wanna be with him or not.. If he wanted to be with you, he would of been honest with you. Either the girl wants to get a rise out of you, or she just doesn't even know he has a girlfriend. You're better off without him. Hope you take my advice.
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is it wrong to be fingered at age thirteen? (link)
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In my opinion, it is too young. Once you're fingered, you will definitely want other things.. Just remember to think about things before you do them, they will effect you later whether you believe that or not.. Just be cautious and safe. Hope I helped.
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I am a 15 year old boy.I have a penis that is 4 1/2 inches non erect,and 6 1/2 inches erect.I have a girl friend that is 1 month younger than me.she has had sex 4 times.Idk know if any the boys are older than me,but i beleive at least 1 was.I wanna show her im like the best and make her feel good,but i think she might have did someone that has a penis bigger than mine.Does anyone have any advice on how i can grow my penis? (link)
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Your penis size is not smaller than normal. If your girlfriend has more experience than you then ask her what she likes. Confidence is key, but it would also be smart to not be arrogant.. Just have fun!
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Today when I got out of the shower I found that I had a mole half on the bottom of my nipple. It's never been there before, and it hurts very badly with only the slightest touch. I'm a little freaked out. It's definitely dark and mole-esque looking except for the fact that it's very elongated, raised, swollen, and most importantly, EXTREMELY painful. Again, this is a new occurence. I've never had this mole before. Any advice? I'm freaking out, because you always hear about how messed up moles or occurring moles can be an indication of cancer, and although I know i sound completely ridiculous for worrying about something like that...I am. So, please, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. (link)
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I would be very nervous also. You could be super cautious and still get dangerous moles. My best advice is to mention it to a guardian and go see a doctor. You might be seen as ridiculous, but I would rather be safe then be sorry later. Good luck and I hope you take my advice.
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You know that clear strap on in the inside of dresses and some tops? That look like a clear bra strap but it's really just to be hooked on the clothes hanger?
Well I suddenly noticed that I don't remove them from any of my clothes! So I was wondering if I should cut them off or can i just rip them off? (link)
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Depends on the material of the clothing, take a look at how it's attached. If it's secured very tightly, then you probably should cut it off.
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I have a really spoiled best friend and I really can't stand being around her anymore. Her parents have lots of money and my friend gets showered with money all the time. The last time my friend and I went to the mall her dad gave her $200 and said here honey have fun! I have an allowance and I actually have to work to get my money and my friend has never done any work in her life! She wears expensive clothes and has a container ten times the size of a shoebox chock full of makeup she never wears! She makes me so mad! She brags about it too!
Please help me!
Thank you :) (link)
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Honestly, you'll be better off in the long run, you will understand the value of a dollar. If your friend is inconsiderate and acts like she is better than you then drop her, or explain to her that you don't appreciate how she acts.. Well, good luck, and remember that karma is a b****. (:
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How do you get bigger buttocks? (link)
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Lunges.
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There's this girl I hang out with a lot. We've known each other since we were little kids. We grew up together and we're both 15 now. For 4 years now I've fallen for her hard. I daydream of her all of the time. I dream of her at night. I can't get her out of my head. I love everything about her from the way she smiles to the smell of her hair when I'm close to her. I always seem to find myself making excuses to see her more often. I feel like I'm obsessed because my feelings for her are so strong I can't have a proper girlfriend (I always end up being distant to them, not really wanting to date them, and dumping them early on because of my lack of interest).
I've kept these feelings a secret but sometimes I think I should tell her. I'm afraid she won't feel the same though, and I'll end up ruining the friendship. I know I sound like such a wuss here but the emotions are so intense and I've kept them in so long.
What's the best thing to do in this particular situation? Should I tell her and risk everything? Should I keep this stuff bottled in? (link)
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When I was younger the same situation happened to me. I think the best way to go is let her know. Because you can't really have a friendship with someone you are in love with anyways. I wish you the best, and good luck!
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Hey,
So I've been trying really hard to find a gift for my 19 year old boyfriend. I'm going to visit him at home for the first time in a few days (we met in college and live about 2 hrs apart) and I want to get him something really special. I don't even know. We said we wouldn't spend too much money on each other. We've been together for about 3 months. Thanks. (link)
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The way into a boy's heart is definitely his stomach.. Make his favorite cookies or make him dinner. Most thoughtful gifts are inexpensive. (:
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My bf is really controlling. He always has to know where I am, what I'm doing, who I'm with, and everything. He controls like everything. If I end up being like 10 minutes late from when he told me to call him (like if I go out shopping and was suppose to call him at noon, but I call him at like 12:10) then he gets all angry and yells and screams and tells me I'm a really, really bad gf. I know this isn't healthy but I LOVE HIM. When he isn't mad at me then we have a really good time together. Is there something I can do to make him not controling and better understanding? Do I HAVE to dump him, because all my friends say he's just abusive and it'll get worse but he's everything to me. Help, please! What do I do? (link)
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This boy seems to have a little bit of a trust issue. I also agree with your friends. I think it can only get worse... So, for your well-being I would probably get away because you can find another boy that "you can have a good time with".. Get away before you're in too deep.
Good luck!
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My mom got me a hamster for Christmas. He's really cute and I'm happy because I wanted a new pet for a long time. The hamster is kind of big and is black and white colored with a pink nose. I was wondering if anybody had some sort of cute Christmas names I could name him since I got him today (Christmas)? I'm not coming up with anything, and my mom is like, "Name him Santa!" so...any other ideas? Thanx (link)
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Snowflake? Coal? Haha, I don't know just a couple of silly suggestions. :p
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Less than a week ago, i broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months. He was devastated, and he still keeps calling me and obsessing about what happened between us. I have no interest of getting back with him and i just want him to leave me alone. For about a month now, i've liked this other guy. We've been friends for a while, but we've gotten close and i really really like him. I found out recently that he likes me too. I want to be with him, but i just got out of a long relationship myself, and im not ready for another commited relationship. But i really like him a lot and i dont want to lose him, but im not ready for a relationship just yet. Its not fair to him but its also not the right time. I feel like he's getting screwed over and i feel so bad. What should i do?!? Thanks so much :] (link)
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Just keep ignoring your ex- boyfriend, sooner or later he will give up, as for the new boy just tell him you want to be close to him and him not talk to other girls the way he's talking to you, tell him you wanna be with him without the label for right now, because you like him but you don't wanna rush into things.
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my bf is 5 yrs older than me and has totally different views on waiting for certain things than i do.. he keeps trying to moves us fwd and it keeps making me madder every time. what should i do?
also: anytime i mention the words "break up" he flips out and becomes all emotional...
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If you aren't ready for certain things that he thinks needs to happen, that is definitely a reason to break up in my opinion. Your boyfriend needs to be understanding.
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15f i love my girlfriend very much and i know she wouldnt hurt me or leave me and i know tha shell always be there for me but for some reason i dont believe her and i think shes gonna leave me like alot of other people have i also suffer from paranoia which doesnt help i dont want my past relationships to ruin my relationship with her what do u think i should do??? any advice would be deply apriciated (link)
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You two should sit down together and have a long heart-to-heart. Just to make sure you want the same things, because you might want something she is not ready for. Make sure honesty is at the top of her list. Also, I would look at her track record (what she has done to boyfriend's in her past). Be open minded, because if you don't, you'll regret it, she could be the best thing that ever happened to you. I hope you let your guard down, good luck! (:
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Okay. I'm going to try and make this brief. My bestfriend and my boyfriend have never gotten along. Ever. They claimed they never talked to one another, couldn't stand the other, all this lovely stuff. Making my life super easy. Lol,jk. So on the fourth of July, while on my boyfriends phone, I saw texts from my "bestfriend" that were incriminating to me. She'd told them things I'd done while bf and I were broken up, more than three months before then, along with more than a handful of lies. He and I hashed it out, her and I hashed it out, she promised she did it out of misplaced anger, she'd never do it again, blah blah, and I forgave her when she needed a place to stay because of home issues. WELLLLL, two days ago my boyfriend forwarded me a text from her AGAIN telling him things I'd said while I was visiting her at college. More things I thought I could confide in her. Him and I were arguing, I was angry, so the things I said we're untrue, and they're just typical things you'd say to your girlfriends when you're venting about aggravating boys. Yet she felt the need to clue him in to these rants. I also found out that they've cultivated some sort of relationship behind my back, where they text sometimes, she's called him complaining about her life, and she "drunk dialed" him on more than one occasion. Including last night. While they both told me they never talked. After she promised she'd never do this again. And here I am left looking like an idiot. My question is, what do I do. I thoroughly HATE confrontation, I'm horrible at standing my ground, sticking up for myself, etc. As evidence my my too-quick-to-forgive ignorance the first time she did this to me. Mind you, I'd at least understand this had I done something to deserve it, but I absolutely did nothing. Honestly. She texted me today asking about me visiting next weekend, and I ignored her, then my bf texted me about a half hour later saying she tried calling him, and keeps texting him to call her back. He hasn't. But I have no idea what my next step should be/how I can prevent myself from feeling bad and forgiving her. I'm disgusted with her. But she's been totally normal to me since the date on the text my boyfriend forwarded. As if she'd never do a nasty thing against me. So I'm completely clueless as to what I need to do, how to approach this in a mature but firm way, all this. Any help at all is so greatly appreciated, and I thank you so much if you've read this all. If it helps, I'm 19, bf's 21, and twoface is 18. Thanks in advance. (link)
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In this situation, I would pick my boyfriend over my friend.. I would either:
A.) Stop telling her things at once, hang out with her less and less, and finally you guys will fall apart.
B.) Stop talking to her AT ALL. Never responding to her text.
You're lucky your boyfriend has stayed around through all this drama, so don't keep putting him through it. Good luck! (:
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i spend alot of time with my bf i admit, but i spend the equal amount of time with my bestie.
shes getting clingy though, hates my boyfriend ( and everyone i have dated in the past), hates my friends, and always wants to be alone with me. it was always me her and another girl but resently the other girl left are school so its me and her.
i spend most my school time with the guys as my bf is always busy on the weekends so its the only time we hang, so my friend thinks im ditching her wtf.
what should i do..... shes starting to annoy me (link)
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if you don't want her in your life anymore, explain to her that she is being too clingy.. if she doesn't get the hint, just gradually stop hanging out with her, you know, let her down easy. she'll finally get the hint.
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I just had sex and the condom broke, I'm on the shot and I completely washed out my vagina. I cannot get the plan B pill, is there a good chance that I will become pregnant or do you think it is unlikely. HELP. (link)
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It all depends on if you were ovulating or not, to be on the safe side, I would buy a pregnancy test soon..
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