Question Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 1:32 am
Want to tell this guy how he makes me feel but don't know how to.he has been hurt before
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kellisx3rad answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 8:15 pm: Definitely tell him how you feel! I know it's hard but look at it this way, you have no chance unless you take one. If you don't tell him and nothing ever happens between you two then you're going to regret it. Be honest with him and tell him you know he's been hurt before and that you want a chance to prove you're different and can make him happy. Also, tell him you don't mind taking things slow because most guys that have been hurt aren't looking to jump into serious relationships too quickly. If for some reason he doesn't feel the same way, it will hurt for a while but at least you know and you don't have to wonder "what if". Good luck, I hope it all works out :) [ kellisx3rad's advice column | Ask kellisx3rad A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Saturday September 18 2010, 10:48 pm: Everyone has been hurt...that's an excuse!
TELL HIM! Talk to him or say something you're not going to get anywhere if you don't say anything or if you don't do anything. You want him to know how you feel tell him then you'll regret it if you don't! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
RavenRun answered Thursday September 16 2010, 7:47 pm: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now, and at the beginning it was VERY hard because he was afraid of getting hurt. The best way to show someone your feelings is being there for them all the time.. You telling them is not going to make the difference, at least it didn't with my case. You can tell someone something so many times, but they have to see it to believe it. So just be patient, and try to be there for him as much as you can without pushing him away by being overbearing. [ RavenRun's advice column | Ask RavenRun A Question ]
julie75 answered Thursday September 16 2010, 5:44 pm: He may not be ready for a relationship yet but let him know you're there for him and tell him that everyone's been hurt before, even you. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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