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i feel used and messed with
ok i dont know what to do anymore. my ex bf of 2 years dumped me last year and it took alot of getting used to like no more kisses no more hugs i had to get used to living the single life and it was hard. this boy i went out with last year after him i only went out with him for 2 weeks. then he dumped me. after like 2 months we talked again. then i didnt actually until like 5 months later. and he kissed me. then waked right back out of my life again. i was mad for like a few days. then after that i still talked to him and then i seen him again like 3 months later i seen him one day he randomly said he wanted to see me. so i said ok and i seen him. its like everytime i see him we do things. ater that he said he wanted me to be his gf and like an idiot i said yes. that was last month. i still texted him and stuff.. then i didnt see him again until last week i met up with him like 4 days in a row more then i would usually see him and we did things. and this time i got really attatched to him for someone reason. and now he isnt texting me back. and he has pulled this kind of stuff before but i just wasnt really as mad but now i am so upset i feel like i have to start over again and it makes me mad cuz i love the feeling of being loved and kissing and hugging and now i cant do that anymore cuz i am alone and have no one. why cant i find someone who is a good bf to me and would treat me right. to me it seems like all boys are the same. help me what should i do.
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Sounds to me that this boy is a real scumbag. You don't deserve to be treated like that. You should have a guy that likes you for you, always, and doesn't just stop at a certain time. That's wrong, and I can tell you right now, he won't get very far in relationships with that attitude. You need to either tell him to stop with the way he's treating you, or ditch the kid. He isn't worth your time, or pain. I am positive you will find many more douchebags, and one where you can settle down with. Everyone does. Don't fret.
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Not all boys are the same it just seems that way to you I'm not for sure what age you are but that might be a lot to do with it .you see younger guys don't know what they want they just go from one girl to the next .my question is and I don't want you to ge ofensive about it but you didn't have sex with him cause if you didn't. Then that's probably what he's looking for a booty call .and you don't need someone like that .you seem like you have a lot of emotions going on in you cause you can't find the right guy but be patiant it will happen .hers what you do don't try too hard don't just take or get atached to the first guy you see take your time .I know it sounds hard to do because you don't want to be lonely iv been there before and I'm a guy .maybe you should ask this guy if he realy wants to be with you or not because you don't want to be with him when it covienent for him he's either with you or not and see what he says that's all I can sugest to you well I hope this helps and good luck
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