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To me love is a must
I'm a fifteen year old girl who's had emotional issues and low self esteem issues since I was a very little girl.i'm really hurt because I think that all most guys in high school Want to do is take advantage of girls and never treat them good like a girl friend.I've always felt alone for some reason which always made me strive to try to "fall in love".it doesn't work though because I always end up getting hurt.I've been in relationships before but I've never had a boy friend.it's usually either I'm the girl on the side or just a girl that is taken advantage of.so I'm constantly in search of someone who will fall in love with me but its become a very unhealthy habbit now.it's like whenever I see a guy that I really like (or "love") and they have a girl friend already or they're hugging on one of there chick friends Im crushed and start tobreak down and cry.I don't want love to be something I depend on or something that has taken control of me,but I fear it already has.and in the midst of all this I feel unbeautiful and ugly and the person everbidy hates.
Isthere anything that anyone can tell me that they think would help???
Thank you.
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Hi there,
You are beautiful and no one could ever hate you. You may think now that you need a boyfriend, but you can be a strong independant girl being you. You do not need a guy to make you feel good inside, you can do that with your own desire. Love who you are and then a guy will love you too. You are still young, so keep your head high, wear a smile, hang out with your friends, play crazy/fun games, give hugs, have sleepovers, and be yourself :) You don't have time to worry about silly boys right now.
When the time is right, you will find a guy who treats you lovingly. It may not be right away, but it is coming. Do not let yourself fall for a guy who isn't treating you right, for you deserve the best. You are special, unique, and brilliant the way you are. Never lose hope, he is out there... you just do not need him right now. Friends are what is important <3
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